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Q: There Is Something Very Wrong Here
asked by: AyaMiyaki on August 17th, 2006
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I'm sure this post will be locked as well. I'm fine with that, seeing how I can't respond to any of the other posts as they've been locked as well. I want my opinion to be public, therefore I will post this thread rather than send a .P.M.

I understand completely locking/editing/moving a thread that either is offensive and hurtful or has no place in that forum. I do not understand moving a thread that does not fit the cookie-cutter shape of the forum. I was pregnant 8 days ago, and was allowed to talk about my unborn daughter as much as I wanted. Now, because I have given birth, I am not allowed to talk about her here. I now have to talk about her in a forum that, quite frankly, no one hardly ever looks at. I don't know anyone over there. I have friends .H.E.R.E, therefore I wanted the people that have supported me with great advice to get a chance to hear about how great things are going now, and to see new pictures of my child.

I don't think talking about a newborn baby is so out of place in a pregnancy forum. I don't see anything wrong with posting pictures of my newborn daughter in a forum where quite a few ladies are expecting little girls of their own. I don't see this as such a huge deal that actions should be taken to completely move my post. I have nothing but positive feelings and emotions towards my beautiful daughter, which other pregnant women (especially those carrying little girls of their own) can identify with and look forward to. Moving my topic makes no sense, other than to do it just because other threads have been moved and locked as well.

There is a time and place for censorship. I don't believe this was one of them. I am highly offended that my post was moved. I thought the issue of over-modding was over with weeks ago. I guess I was mistaken.

Do not bother .P.Ming me with justifications. I don't want to hear them.
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ThriftyGal
replied on August 17th, 2006
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I hear you... As a pregnant woman expecting a daughter I find hearing about your experience great, in a way to prepare me for some of the things I will experience, and a complete joy to see your pretty little girl.

Interesting is that this mod herself has posted pictures of her family in this forum.

How would she have felt if someone decided that this wasn't important here and had moved it out of sight to where people could barely find it.

I'm sure the huge majority would disagree and want to see your baby and hear your experience here in this forum where they spend most of their time when on ehealth. I totally feel for you hun!
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Melissa_20
replied on August 17th, 2006
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Re: There Is Something Very Wrong Here
ayamiyaki wrote:
i understand completely locking/editing/moving a thread that either is offensive and hurtful or has no place in that forum. I do not understand moving a thread that does not fit the cookie-cutter shape of the forum. I was pregnant 8 days ago, and was allowed to talk about my unborn daughter as much as I wanted. Now, because I have given birth, I am not allowed to talk about her here. I now have to talk about her in a forum that, quite frankly, no one hardly ever looks at. I don't know anyone over there. I have friends .H.E.R.E, therefore I wanted the people that have supported me with great advice to get a chance to hear about how great things are going now, and to see new pictures of my child.

I don't think talking about a newborn baby is so out of place in a pregnancy forum. I don't see anything wrong with posting pictures of my newborn daughter in a forum where quite a few ladies are expecting little girls of their own. I don't see this as such a huge deal that actions should be taken to completely move my post. I have nothing but positive feelings and emotions towards my beautiful daughter, which other pregnant women (especially those carrying little girls of their own) can identify with and look forward to. Moving my topic makes no sense, other than to do it just because other threads have been moved and locked as well.
i agree.This is a pregnancy forum.Does it specify what type of pregnancy talk may be allowed? No,it simply says pregnancy. . .I think its ridiculous!
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Becky
replied on August 17th, 2006
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I agree 100%. I am always posting photo's of my babies. I mean for gods sake what is the product of these pregnancies? The babies- duh! We can't be pregnant forever and shouldn't be forced to leave when we have had our children!
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arcadia
replied on August 17th, 2006
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Amen. That's all I have to say right now. A-doing it-men.
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Melissa_20
replied on August 17th, 2006
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arcadia wrote:
a-doing it-men.
lmao!


Kia,everyone is stating their opinion on the matter.It really isn't fair for topics that are about pregnancy be removed and put somewhere else because tazzy just doesn't think it belongs here.The topics are pertaining to pregnancy so like I said earlier,why can't they be in here as well as where she moves them?All these women want to talk to hter pregnant women about what the are going through or what they have gone through. Why is that so unacceptable in a pregnancy forum? We aren't trying to cause trouble,we just want answers
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Nataliachick7
replied on August 17th, 2006
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This place is becoming a communistic regime!
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arcadia
replied on August 17th, 2006
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It's so true. O.M.G.. You're prejudice against communists, .Natalia!!! Lmao :p
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AyaMiyaki
replied on August 17th, 2006
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For anyone who cares, the post .I'm referring to has been moved to .Baby .Milestones.


Http://pregnancy.Ehealthforum.Com/health/t opic70885.Html
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Melissa_20
replied on August 17th, 2006
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How ridiculous. . .
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Becky
replied on August 17th, 2006
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Your daughter is beautiful. A real little doll
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Kia
replied on August 17th, 2006
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Ok guys all you are doing is making it worse.

Yes, I am in agreement (mostly) with you, but the way you are tackling this is not constructive.

I'm locking this one and please don't make more.
I understand, trust me I do, but if you want things different you have to tackle it in a mature and convincing fashion, not by making posts like these.

Please understand what I am saying
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