What the Hell Happened to Me? Posted: 08-15-06 22:51pm
Hey,
i'm from a small town, population 1000 :p
since I was about 14 i've always had guys
around wanting to date me, to the point
where they would constantly overlap. Most
guys I dated were from out of town, but it
was great. Just since may, it's all gone
down hill. After my boyfriend and I broke
up, I started seeing someone else for a
few months. That didn't work out. Then a
guy came around but only for a week or
two, and now, nothing. It's just odd to
me, i'm wondering if anyone experienced
this? I'm 18 and am just as attractive as
I was before may :p
i don't have any friends...So I don't
really have anyone who can tell me what
happened or anyone to talk to.
I guess this all started because almost
every guy i've liked has always shown
interest back, but the last 2 guys, just
turn the other way. And no don't throw
the old "you must have been with too many
guys" line at me, I haven't been. I've
only had 3 serious relationships, all the
other guys were good friends that liked me
whether anything came from it or not...
Sorry, i've just been having a rough time.
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laura79
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Ontario
Posted: 08-16-06 22:02pm
Hey there,
im about 9 years older than you and I have
sort of been where you are. Nothing has
happened to you i'm pretty sure. It might
be difficult, but don't let a guys
attention determine your self worth. I
know you said that you dont have any
friends and that must be tough....
Friends make times like this easier
because they make you realize how great
you are even without a guy. I dont think
the issue is you not having a guy, I feel
it may be that you are lonely for
companionship. I may be way off base here
but like I said initially, I have been in
your situation and over time I realized
thats what it was for me.
Let me know how things go.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 08-23-06 15:05pm
I think you need to take time out for
yourself for a while and then get back in
the game.People can pick up on things and
your feelings just based upon how you act
and the way you talk.
