Trying to Repair a Friendship. Posted: 01-20-04 16:33pm
First of all, I apologize if this is in
the wrong forum. I couldn't find a
forum about friendship.
Months ago, this guy and I were sort of
boyfriend/girlfriend (internet romance)
but we had a serious falling out partly
over a health problem he had. He
thought he was going to die from a
headache which he had (and the neurologist
had no idea what the cause was), and
partly from the tension from our best
friend-dating relationship.
We haven't spoken to each other for months
now, and we are now both dating other
people, and I miss him a lot. Not as
a "sort of boyfriend" but as my best
friend. I have since realized that I
do not love him, but i'm afraid of what my
current boyfriend would say if we were to
repair our friendship, and of my
ex-friends reaction. I'm scared he
may not want to talk to me again.
(this is selfish, I know.) there have
been many times when I have reached for
the phone to call him, only to stop myself
because of these two factors.
I'd really appreciate any advice anyone
can give me.
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ilovemybaby4life
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2004 Posts: 23 Location: pennsylvania
Posted: 01-21-04 11:59am
If u and ur boyfriend are close maybe u
can discuss it with him and tell him how u
feel sometimes its just better to let
things go whether u want to or not im
speaking from personal experience
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Anonymous
Anonymous
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Hi
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Avenging Angel
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2004 Posts: 4
Posted: 01-22-04 13:35pm
I'm 18, and we have met. My boyfriend is
fully aware of my last relationship, which
is why I was nervous of telling him. I
finally got the courage to talk to my
ex-friend and we decided to be friends
again. The atmosphere between us is very
awkward right now, but I think that will
get better with time.
