I am a 24 year old female. I masturbate
every now and then. I have been
masturbating since I was 8 years old.
When I have sex, I can never have an
orgasm through intercourse...Only through
oral sex. Have masturbating all these
years be the reason why I cannot have an
orgasms though intercourse? Did I cause
permanent damage?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-14-06 21:20pm
Absolutely not! You have done no harm
to yourself, and if religious wakos com on
her siting reports that it does cause
harm, ignore them.
Masturbation is very healthy, and it can
help you know what your body likes! Don't
stress about not orgasming during sex,
most women don't orgasm from vaginal
stimulation alone. I don't! Vaginal
orgasm is really hard to do because it
makes you feel like you have to pee, so
you have to be brave and let go and
actually use the urinating muscles, in
order to actually orgasm from it (well,
most women need to anyway).
Use clitoral stimulation with your fingers
during sex, and then you can orgasm :)
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fiona05
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Posted: 08-16-06 14:55pm
Nah, masturbation hasn't caused you any
damage. I've been masturbating daily
since I was about ten and I don't find it
affects my ability to orgasm during sex.
I can orgasm through penetration alone,
but see, it's really quite an individual
thing - more of a case of what your guy is
doing, or simply what makes you tick.
Eiri's right, most women don't come
through sex alone, they need touching too.
This is totally normal.
I think it's good that you've been
masturbating because it helps you to
understand what feels good for you.
There are many girls and women post on
this forum about how they're having sex
with their boyfriends and they want to
come but they don't know how. They've
never masturbated before, so they dont
know what an orgasm is or how to achieve
one. I think it in fact makes it much
easier when you know!
Maybe you could get your guy to go down on
you during foreplay and penetrate you just
before you climax...