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diamondsz Extremely eHealthy
August 14th, 2006
Well I sat hubby down and told him he has 6 months to enlighten me/us getting help as a family unit not just him, he agreed and for two days now has been beyond exceptional.


He brought me to dinner and we talked before going to bed, funny I guess he didnt know how I felt although I kept telling him and telling him cause I would get angry. Well deal number one was his friend is not allowed here till he cleans up his act and we are not to have anyone over for two months, instead we will be a family unit going out all as a family.


Deal number two no more of this I dont want to cuddle I dont mean to sound harsh but he only wanted to do stuff when it benefitted him and I said sorry everytime you say no I will remind you of our talk to the point of me possibly leaving.



As for the kids/cleaning no more of me doing everything he is on parental and im up for promotion so I need my energy to put 120% to get to a higher position which is withing arms reach. Oh and he will be getting fixed he is not the one who is going to make the choice for us to have more children we will make that together and I think 2 is enough.


He will raise the kids in his culture during the day, I will speak french to them during the night and during the weekend we will speak both. No more of the name calling the kids dont need to see it and I will kick his out my door, yes we all get upset but >h.F that was enough.


So we're on a good start lets hope it stays that way just a quick update

btw im feeling lucky today (im buying a ticket lol)
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Melissa_20
replied August 14th, 2006
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I'm glad things are going good for the time being! I hope it stays this way. So are you totally forgetting the other guy?
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yellow ribbon
replied August 14th, 2006
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I hope everything stays happy and works out. Altho I dont think its fair to make him get fixed before you decide if its gunna work because if its better for both of you to move on he might decide he wants more with whoever he might get with. Ya know?
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Melissa_20
replied August 15th, 2006
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macysmama wrote:
i hope everything stays happy and works out. Altho I dont think its fair to make him get fixed before you decide if its gunna work because if its better for both of you to move on he might decide he wants more with whoever he might get with. Ya know?

i agree
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HcoBrunette06
replied August 15th, 2006
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Me too, I think if you're gonna have him get fixed you should too. Thats only fair if he can't have kids you can't either, right?
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied August 15th, 2006
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Well hopefully you guys can work through things...I know that we arent in your shoes..And dont know exactly how you feel..But him being your childrens father ...There is always going to be that connection--although if you arent happy then there is no need to live that way ..Because your children can tell when mommie isnt happy ...Just take time and think through things ...Because the last thing you want to do is jump into something and then regret it..--i dont think you are exactly"in love" with this other guy from your work ...I think you are just confused and are needing someone to comfort you the way your husband doesnt ..And this other guy is making you feel comfortable ...Therefore he is your shoulder to lean on and that someone to talk to when you need to vent..Who wouldnt want that:)...But jess dont listen or do what someone else tells you to do ..Because only you can make you happy...--do what your heart tells you ..Good luck..And we are all here if ya need us ;)
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diamondsz
replied August 16th, 2006
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melissa_20 wrote:
macysmama wrote:
i hope everything stays happy and works out. Altho I dont think its fair to make him get fixed before you decide if its gunna work because if its better for both of you to move on he might decide he wants more with whoever he might get with. Ya know?

i agree


i need 4 weeks recovery time if I do that, I would have to give blood before hand cause im low on iron and platelets he made the descion to go im not forcing it I just want him to get it done earlier...

Anyways past few days have gotten better he wakes up when I get home and we chat I love it...

Jill you are so right about you comment its more of I had someone strong to fall on he has a girlfriend but we flirt all the time but I think we kinda get along so well that sometimes we think we want each other and we dont usually only like that when there is trouble in one of our relationships.
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