I am sorry if I started something here!
I am here for you and I am for your
choice! No one is perfect, like it was
said earlier and we all make mistakes, it
is part of being human. I just ignore
what nightangel 173 says and whoever else
does not understand! You are in my
thoughts.Eire! I do hope you find out
that you are not pregnant and it is all
just stress! Nightangel173 did upset me a
little when she said something in regards
to you wanting to have an abortion, like,
oh heck yes, that is what we want, we wake
up everyday just hoping our number has
come up to have an abortion today, what on
earth do these people think, that we
really enjoy abortion(how rediculous)! To
me that would be like wishing that my ms
is worse today, that was totally
unnecesary(sp).
All the best to you!!
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Re: Eiri Posted: 08-22-06 18:29pm
Eiri I am still laughing at how you missed
a week. I guess that's what happens to
college kids on the pill hahaha. But
relax eiri if you have had two periods
already without doubt you are not
pregnant. You can do a home pregnancy
test in any case too. Now remember, at
least look at the color of the pill so you
know what pill you are taking, that's why
the come in different color for each week.
If you have any doubts of pill misuse
whatever the reason remember to use backup
protection aka condoms until you are sure
that you are!!
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Posted: 08-22-06 18:35pm
cambion
wrote:
good luck to you, eiri. I
don't know if you're a student, but by all
means do not let some kid ruin your life
while you're in the process of making
it.
an child does not ruin anybody's lives.
You ruin your life yourself.
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Re: Eiri Posted: 08-22-06 18:39pm
sandyallen
wrote:
i am sorry if I started
something here! I am here for you and I
am for your choice! No one is perfect,
like it was said earlier and we all make
mistakes, it is part of being human. I
just ignore what nightangel 173 says and
whoever else does not understand! You
are in my thoughts.Eire! I do hope you
find out that you are not pregnant and it
is all just stress! Nightangel173 did
upset me a little when she said something
in regards to you wanting to have an
abortion, like, oh heck yes, that is what
we want, we wake up everyday just hoping
our number has come up to have an abortion
today, what on earth do these people
think, that we really enjoy abortion(how
rediculous)! To me that would be like
wishing that my ms is worse today, that
was totally unnecesary(sp).
All the best to
you!!
sandyallen if you don't enjoy abortions
then why do it?
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Posted: 08-22-06 18:44pm
diamondsz
wrote:
i had too add something to
the first post
i have alot of friends who have college
degrees and are on welfare(social
assistance) its so hard to find a job and
once they realize then can get money to
sit on their ass they barely want to do
anything.
happens a lot in pr. Education in pr is
so cheap that so many people have degrees
and there is not enough jobs. Many have
to move to the us to find a job. Here in
the us education is expensive so people
are able to find jobs easier if they
graduate.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 08-22-06 19:43pm
Cambion did you ruin your mothers
life???
Kids are beautiful and whether you like
them or not what right do you have to tell
woman not have one its their choice and
hey if you parents didnt have sex you
wouldnt be here right so dont forget where
you came from!!
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Re: Eiri Posted: 08-22-06 22:19pm
nightangel73
wrote:
eiri I am still laughing at
how you missed a week. I guess that's
what happens to college kids on the pill
hahaha. But relax eiri if you have had
two periods already without doubt you are
not pregnant. You can do a home
pregnancy test in any case too. Now
remember, at least look at the color of
the pill so you know what pill you are
taking, that's why the come in different
color for each week. If you have any
doubts of pill misuse whatever the reason
remember to use backup protection aka
condoms until you are sure that you
are!!
'
wow, you're a serious asshole.
Laugh at the woman who is going through
the most stressful part of her life,
having to decide to ruin her own life or
kill a fetus? Seriously, what the fuck is
wrong with you!? So much for being
compassionate and pro-life, sicko.
Women have periods while they are
pregnant; my mother did and she ws 4
months pregnant before she even knew,
because she was having periods. My pills
are all blue by the way, except for
the first week. Week two and three are
both blue; one shade is slightly darker
but can you honestly expect me to remember
the shade of the pill? At the time, I
thought I was just fine, thus why I didn't
use protection. When you think you're
protected, you don't use condoms.
I can not use a hpt because, as I
stated, I have no money until school
starts.
For those who asked, I am a senior in
college. This is my final year, and then
i'm going on to graduate school, without
any breaks. This is no time for a child;
I live with three other college kids in a
crappy little house, four hours away from
my boyfriend. He lives with his mother.
Not good conditions for a child; and I
refuse to let anyone else raise my child.
That's why I would abort. My mother
wouldn't let me abort or adopt if she knew
I was pregnant (i don't even know if I am,
i'm still hoping i'm not). She says she'd
raise the child; and I refuse to let her.
Thus, I would abort without telling her.
I would tell my boyfriend. If I was going
to have a kid, i'd give it up to adoption,
but since that's impossible, I would abort
it. If i'm having a kid, and my mother
wanted to raise it, i'd just raise the
damn thing myself.
But none of that is happening... Since I
would abort, final answer.
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Nightangel173 Posted: 08-22-06 22:49pm
I must agree with.Eiri I too had 3 periods
with both of my kids and my abortions were
necessary but they still hurt physically
and mentallyjust like my 2 m/c but you
have to do what you feel is right at the
time no one really wants one no one really
wakes up each morning and says gosh, I
would sure like to have an abortion today!
They are no picnic in the park! I hope
like heck she is not pregnant either but
if she is, it is her choice and I will
stand by her or anyone else here! That is
why I have always said pro-choice are more
understanding and thoughtful, they do not
go around laughing at other's who are
hurting, bot all b/c is alike. We are all
human, we make mistakes, I am sorry that
you cannot see this!
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Posted: 08-23-06 00:13am
Quote:
an child does not
ruin anybody's lives. You ruin your life
yourself.
i disagree - children can do a damn fine
job of ruining someone's life, or the
lives of a couple, whether they are dating
or married. Children aren't always the
deal-breaker between partners, but they
sure as hell don't make life anymore
enjoyable. Sorry, but burdens do not
bring joy. And do not give me the line of
crap about how kids are miracles, because
any retard can make a child - pregnancy
and childbirth aren't miraculous.
Quote:
cambion did you
ruin your mothers life???
Kids are beautiful and whether you like
them or not what right do you have to tell
woman not have one its their choice and
hey if you parents didnt have sex you
wouldnt be here right so dont forget where
you came from!!
yeah, I think I did ruin her life. She
seemed to dislike the fact that I existed
up until I was about eleven.
Hey, eiri is intelligent enough to not
want to do the parent thing when she's so
close to graduating, and honestly I think
any woman who would choose to screw
herself over in her senior year of college
by spawning is an fool. Most college
students struggle financially, and
mentally (juggling homework, classes, and
work), and there is no room for a
screw-up...I mean child. Tell yourself
what you please, diamondsz - if it makes
you feel secure to think that children
make everything all better, then by all
means don't let me rain on your parade.
Tell me when you learn to face reality.
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Re: Eiri Posted: 08-23-06 01:38am
nightangel73
wrote:
eiri I am still laughing at
how you missed a week. I guess that's
what happens to college kids on the pill
hahaha.
that's not a very .Christian attitude -
i'm sure you don't mean to sound so
heartless, nightangel. :-(
eiri is going through a very worrying time
and while i'm not comfortable with the
idea of abortion, I hardly think she is
jumping for joy about the prospect. Only
a very sick person would enjoy having an
abortion.
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Re: Eiri Posted: 08-23-06 05:10am
nightangel73
wrote:
sandyallen if you don't enjoy abortions
then why do
it?
omg are you serious?? Have you actually
read any of the hundreds of posts on
here??
People don't enjoy surgery but they have
it done if they feel it's necessary,
honestly, this is possibly the most
ignorant thing you've posted
no woman
wants an abortion as she wants an ice
cream cone or a porsche. She wants an
abortion as an animal caught in a trap
wants to gnaw off its own leg.
~frederica mathewes-green
this explain it to you? And this woman is
pro-life.
Eiri, I hope that it's just stress and
that you're not pregnant.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 08-23-06 09:26am
Ok im locking this post now. Eiri you
have had the chance to defend yourself.
Nightnangel you are way out of line.
Regardless of how anyone feels this is her
body her child. No one even knows if she
is pregnant .
