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Posted: 08-14-06 02:17am
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I was just reading a post in there and,
whilst I totally sympathise with this
woman and realise she's having a very
difficult time something just jumped out
at me.
| Quote: | | i am a single
mother of 2 kids, I am 33 so this is not
the traditional type of oops im pregnant
situation, im educated and know better
than to not use
protection |
i find it strange that people can have an
unplanned pregnancy happen to them and
still believe that it only ususally
happens to uneducated young women who
don't bother using protection! I don't
believe there is such a thing as a
"traditional" pregnancy situation (each is
different right?) but it seems to be this
kind of belief which also leads to the
opinion that only a certain type of women
have abortions.
This isn't anything against this woman, I
just want to clarify that, but i'm well
educated and know to use protection (as
most women do - not bothering to use
anything is not generally what you seem to
come across when discussing this).
Rant over. :)
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Posted: 08-14-06 08:20am
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That is quite sad, someone who thought
that they are different just in education,
im educated and have two kids but I never
throw it in people's face.
Anywho you arent different and apply to
same rules as us other woman anyone can
get pregnant andyone can have abortion and
prejudice can actually show signs of
unitelligence but we wont go there...
<moo> I read that part twice and it
never stood out wow
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Cambion
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Posted: 08-14-06 09:32am
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It's just the typical stereotype that the
high school dropout working her life away
at mcdonald's is the one most likely to
get knocked up. Honestly, having an
education doesn't always make someone
smart in certain ways, but on the other
hand, being a dropout doesn't
automatically mean the person is stupid.
I agree that there's really no such thing
as a 'traditional' pregnancy, which I
assume the woman means 'planned'. How the
hell many people plan pregnancies anymore?
I think I once read that seventy percent
of pregnancies these days are unplanned.
It's kind of sad that there are that many
unplanned "miracles" out there, but
whatever.
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Posted: 08-14-06 09:40am
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Yeah but then again my son was unplanned
but I still love him..
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Posted: 08-14-06 20:59pm
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Accidents on birth control can happen to
anyone of any social status, trust me.
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Eiri
Posted: 08-20-06 22:03pm
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Are you trying to tell us something in a
round-a-bout-way? Are you pregnant? Is
congratulations in order, or are you still
uncertaitn?
I know that b/c is not 100% safe for a
fact but I m/c with one. I had to abort
with the iud one but that was along time
ago and they have improved the iud since
that.
All the best to you .Eiri!
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Posted: 08-21-06 12:48pm
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I actually have no idea. I've had two
periods since the incident, in which I
skipped (without having any 'no pill'
days) from the end of week one to the
start of week three, missing all of week
two. I had sex the day before my period
started. Then I had heavy vaginal
discharge the next month until week three,
when it lessened to almost nothing, and
then had another period that was slightly
lighter than normal. Now, I am on week
three once more, and though my discharge
was heavier than normal this month, it
wasn't as heavy as last month. I'm
scheduling for a pap smear soon anyway, so
then i'll know for sure.
And if I am pregnant, congradualtions
aren't in order, and aborton is.
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Posted: 08-21-06 18:15pm
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| eiri
wrote: | i actually have no idea.
I've had two periods since the incident,
in which I skipped (without having any 'no
pill' days) from the end of week one to
the start of week three, missing all of
week two. I had sex the day before my
period started. Then I had heavy
vaginal discharge the next month until
week three, when it lessened to almost
nothing, and then had another period that
was slightly lighter than normal. Now,
I am on week three once more, and though
my discharge was heavier than normal this
month, it wasn't as heavy as last month.
I'm scheduling for a pap smear soon
anyway, so then i'll know for sure.
And if I am pregnant, congradualtions
aren't in order, and aborton
is. |
why are you not taking the pill as it
should?
Last edited by nightangel73 on 08-21-06 19:47pm; edited 1 time in total
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Eiri
Posted: 08-21-06 18:16pm
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That is your choice and I will not look
down on you for it! Hopefully it is just
the stress! Whatever happens, I am are
here for you!
All the best!
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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-21-06 19:48pm
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| sandyallen
wrote: | that is your choice and I
will not look down on you for it!
Hopefully it is just the stress!
Whatever happens, I am are here for you!
All the best! |
you won't sandyallen but I will :p. Just
comming here and post daily in an abortion
forum is enough remainder to not forget to
take the pill geezz. I guess she wants
to have an abortion.
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Posted: 08-21-06 22:28pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | eiri
wrote: | i actually have no idea.
I've had two periods since the incident,
in which I skipped (without having any 'no
pill' days) from the end of week one to
the start of week three, missing all of
week two. I had sex the day before
my period started. Then I had heavy
vaginal discharge the next month until
week three, when it lessened to almost
nothing, and then had another period that
was slightly lighter than normal.
Now, I am on week three once more, and
though my discharge was heavier than
normal this month, it wasn't as heavy as
last month. I'm scheduling for a pap
smear soon anyway, so then i'll know for
sure.
And if I am pregnant, congradualtions
aren't in order, and aborton
is. |
why are you not taking the pill as it
should? |
it was an accident; I would never do this
on purpose. I left my pack down in my
college town. I made my mom drive me to
pp at 8 am the next day to pick up another
pack so I wouldn't miss any pills!! I'm
dedicated! I thought I was at the end of
week two, when I was only at the end of
week one. That's why I skipped week two,
totally on accident.
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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-21-06 22:32pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | sandyallen
wrote: | that is your choice and I
will not look down on you for it!
Hopefully it is just the stress!
Whatever happens, I am are here for you!
All the best! |
you won't sandyallen but I will :p.
Just comming here and post daily in an
abortion forum is enough remainder to not
forget to take the pill geezz. I guess
she wants to have an
abortion. |
i didn't forget any pills, get the full
story before judging, christian hypocrite.
I in fact put my mother through stress in
order not to miss any pills. I
simply didn't have the right week.
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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-21-06 23:03pm
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| eiri
wrote: | | nightangel73
wrote: | | sandyallen
wrote: | that is your choice and I
will not look down on you for it!
Hopefully it is just the stress!
Whatever happens, I am are here for you!
All the best! |
you won't sandyallen but I will :p.
Just comming here and post daily in an
abortion forum is enough remainder to not
forget to take the pill geezz. I
guess she wants to have an
abortion. |
i didn't forget any pills, get the full
story before judging, christian hypocrite.
I in fact put my mother through stress
in order not to miss any pills. I
simply didn't have the right
week. |
eiri how come you can miss a week? It is
so simple to follow. 3 weeks on, 1 week
off. If you are taking the pill everyday
there is no way you can't not know which
week you are in. I can understand that
if you left your pack somewhere else you
could be unsure of which day but if you
are unsure then go find the package or
find out someone who is near it and call
on the phone and see where you left off
and start the new package where you left
of. If you are still unable to find out
where you left of then start a new package
and restrain from sex for a week. How
complicated is that?
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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-21-06 23:08pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | eiri
wrote: | | nightangel73
wrote: | | sandyallen
wrote: | that is your choice and I
will not look down on you for it!
Hopefully it is just the stress!
Whatever happens, I am are here for you!
All the best! |
you won't sandyallen but I will :p.
Just comming here and post daily in an
abortion forum is enough remainder to not
forget to take the pill geezz. I
guess she wants to have an
abortion. |
i didn't forget any pills, get the full
story before judging, christian hypocrite.
I in fact put my mother through stress
in order not to miss any pills.
I simply didn't have the right
week. |
eiri how come you can miss a week? It
is so simple to follow. 3 weeks on, 1
week off. If you are taking the pill
everyday there is no way you can't not
know which week you are in. I can
understand that if you left your pack at
home you could be unsure of which day but
if you are unsure then go find the package
or find out someone who is near it and
call on the phone and see where you left
off and start the new package where you
left of. If you are still unable to
find out where you left of then start a
new package and restrain from sex for a
week. How complicated is
that? |
did you not read what I said?
I
left
my
pack
down
south.
And then I went the next day and got a
brand new one. I did not have the old
one for reference.
I didn't have to pay attention to what
week I was on when I was taking them
because each day just comes after the
next. I thought I was near the middle of
the pack; I didn't know the exact day.
By middle I mean the visual middle. My
pack is a circle. So I did not know
which day I was on. It's an honest
mistake. I didn't do it on purpose, and
besides this one time, I always take my
pills perfectly. I'm not one of those
teens or young women who go one the boards
and say "i missed my pills and then took
one and missed one and took one 5 hours
late omg what do I do!?" i'm more
responsible than that. Accidents
happen.
I'm a girl in a houseful of guys. You
honestly think it would even occour to me
to ask a guy to look at my birth control
pills? Birth control is private.
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Posted: 08-22-06 02:48am
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Hey, mistakes happen and it's obvious that
this lady tried to take her pill
correctly. I don't think she deserves a
verbal beating for an honest mistake.
I really hope you are not pregnant, eiri.
Would a pregnancy test show an accurate
result yet? If you have had 2 periods
since the incident then I should think you
are in the clear.
Fingers crossed.
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Posted: 08-22-06 02:51am
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| purestgreen
wrote: | hey, mistakes happen and
it's obvious that this lady tried to take
her pill correctly. I don't think she
deserves a verbal beating for an honest
mistake.
I really hope you are not pregnant, eiri.
Would a pregnancy test show an accurate
result yet? If you have had 2 periods
since the incident then I should think you
are in the clear.
Fingers
crossed. |
it would; but I currently have no money, I
have to wait for classes to start next
monday heh. I have finally, finally, been
able to come to terms with this, and the
desicion I may have to make. I've felt at
peace with that.
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Posted: 08-22-06 03:05am
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Are you a student? Just wondering, you
don't have to answer :-)
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Posted: 08-22-06 08:26am
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Good luck to you, eiri. I don't know if
you're a student, but by all means do not
let some kid ruin your life while you're
in the process of making it.
I never realized how many people here are
incapable of reading. I cringe to think
any of these people graduated.
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Posted: 08-22-06 16:41pm
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Back off omg everyone makes mistakes and
if you tell me your perfect ill definatly
know there is something wrong with
you...
I got pregnant on the pill and
depo-provera and depo you cant f*ck up on
so please refrain from telling people they
makes mistakes when these things happen.
We will probally have one more and then
one of us gets fixed, I dont want anymore
but my husband does and I know I will love
the kid after (yes I love babies.)
eiri good luck ill be here for you no
matter what choice you make!
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Posted: 08-22-06 16:47pm
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I had too add something to the first post
i have alot of friends who have college
degrees and are on welfare(social
assistance) its so hard to find a job and
once they realize then can get money to
sit on their ass they barely want to do
anything.
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