That is quite sad, someone who thought that they are different just in education, im educated and have two kids but I never throw it in people's face.

Anywho you arent different and apply to same rules as us other woman anyone can get pregnant andyone can have abortion and prejudice can actually show signs of unitelligence but we wont go there...


I read that part twice and it never stood out wow

It's just the typical stereotype that the high school dropout working her life away at mcdonald's is the one most likely to get knocked up. Honestly, having an education doesn't always make someone smart in certain ways, but on the other hand, being a dropout doesn't automatically mean the person is stupid.

I agree that there's really no such thing as a 'traditional' pregnancy, which I assume the woman means 'planned'. How the hell many people plan pregnancies anymore? I think I once read that seventy percent of pregnancies these days are unplanned. It's kind of sad that there are that many unplanned "miracles" out there, but whatever.

Yeah but then again my son was unplanned but I still love him..

Accidents on birth control can happen to anyone of any social status, trust me.

Are you trying to tell us something in a round-a-bout-way? Are you pregnant? Is congratulations in order, or are you still uncertaitn?
I know that b/c is not 100% safe for a fact but I m/c with one. I had to abort with the iud one but that was along time ago and they have improved the iud since that.
All the best to you .Eiri!

I actually have no idea. I've had two periods since the incident, in which I skipped (without having any 'no pill' days) from the end of week one to the start of week three, missing all of week two. I had sex the day before my period started. Then I had heavy vaginal discharge the next month until week three, when it lessened to almost nothing, and then had another period that was slightly lighter than normal. Now, I am on week three once more, and though my discharge was heavier than normal this month, it wasn't as heavy as last month. I'm scheduling for a pap smear soon anyway, so then i'll know for sure.

And if I am pregnant, congradualtions aren't in order, and aborton is.

why are you not taking the pill as it should?

That is your choice and I will not look down on you for it! Hopefully it is just the stress! Whatever happens, I am are here for you!
All the best!

you won't sandyallen but I will :p. Just comming here and post daily in an abortion forum is enough remainder to not forget to take the pill geezz. I guess she wants to have an abortion.

it was an accident; I would never do this on purpose. I left my pack down in my college town. I made my mom drive me to pp at 8 am the next day to pick up another pack so I wouldn't miss any pills!! I'm dedicated! I thought I was at the end of week two, when I was only at the end of week one. That's why I skipped week two, totally on accident.

i didn't forget any pills, get the full story before judging, christian hypocrite. I in fact put my mother through stress in order not to miss any pills. I simply didn't have the right week.

eiri how come you can miss a week? It is so simple to follow. 3 weeks on, 1 week off. If you are taking the pill everyday there is no way you can't not know which week you are in. I can understand that if you left your pack somewhere else you could be unsure of which day but if you are unsure then go find the package or find out someone who is near it and call on the phone and see where you left off and start the new package where you left of. If you are still unable to find out where you left of then start a new package and restrain from sex for a week. How complicated is that?

did you not read what I said?


I
left
my
pack
down
south.


And then I went the next day and got a brand new one. I did not have the old one for reference.


I didn't have to pay attention to what week I was on when I was taking them because each day just comes after the next. I thought I was near the middle of the pack; I didn't know the exact day. By middle I mean the visual middle. My pack is a circle. So I did not know which day I was on. It's an honest mistake. I didn't do it on purpose, and besides this one time, I always take my pills perfectly. I'm not one of those teens or young women who go one the boards and say "i missed my pills and then took one and missed one and took one 5 hours late omg what do I do!?" i'm more responsible than that. Accidents happen.

I'm a girl in a houseful of guys. You honestly think it would even occour to me to ask a guy to look at my birth control pills? Birth control is private.

Hey, mistakes happen and it's obvious that this lady tried to take her pill correctly. I don't think she deserves a verbal beating for an honest mistake.

I really hope you are not pregnant, eiri. Would a pregnancy test show an accurate result yet? If you have had 2 periods since the incident then I should think you are in the clear.

Fingers crossed.

it would; but I currently have no money, I have to wait for classes to start next monday heh. I have finally, finally, been able to come to terms with this, and the desicion I may have to make. I've felt at peace with that.

Are you a student? Just wondering, you don't have to answer :-)

Good luck to you, eiri. I don't know if you're a student, but by all means do not let some kid ruin your life while you're in the process of making it.

I never realized how many people here are incapable of reading. I cringe to think any of these people graduated.

Back off omg everyone makes mistakes and if you tell me your perfect ill definatly know there is something wrong with you...


I got pregnant on the pill and depo-provera and depo you cant f*ck up on so please refrain from telling people they makes mistakes when these things happen. We will probally have one more and then one of us gets fixed, I dont want anymore but my husband does and I know I will love the kid after (yes I love babies.)

eiri good luck ill be here for you no matter what choice you make!

I had too add something to the first post

i have alot of friends who have college degrees and are on welfare(social assistance) its so hard to find a job and once they realize then can get money to sit on their ass they barely want to do anything.