The original thread was locked so I had to start a new post.I don't remember who the people were that I am replying to, but I am sure they will read this and know what I am talking about.
Yes I did say I have seen some cute and ugly babies in nonmixed and mixed races.I did also make a seemingly contradictory statement on myself by saying my motto is " all babies are beautiful"...Now when I say that I mean they are beautiful because they are innocent and pure, I wasn't referring to their looks.When I first look at a baby I don't judge whether they are cute or ugly, I say, " aww he/she is adorable".It is all about what is on the inside anyways, which is what I try to instill in my daughter.I don't want her judging whether a person is beautiful or not by their skin color or nationality, but by who they are as a person.I just don't like hearing people say oh nonmixed babies are not as cute as mixed or vice versa, bc that seems very stereotypical to group them like that.
2nd of all, yes I am mixed(i also have a gorgeous mulatto niece and many hispanic relatives by marriage) but on applications I fill out caucasian because that is closer to the color of my skin(they dont have olive skin as a race)!People may look at me and not know that I am mixed of 5 nationalities but I am.Iwhen people say mixed babies are cuter that nonmixed or vice versa they are making a statement not based on the facts bc you cant tell whether a person is mixed or not by looking at them unless it is just obvious which is the case with alot of mulatto babies.When I think of mixed I think of any nationality mixed together, not just a specific one.
And last, I am not here to make trouble for anyone.To the person who said I bring up old subjects to start trouble is wrong.I have explained that I am new to all this, I didn't look at the date on the post, and I figured the site was regularly updated and that the post was on a recent discussion.Maybe you guys feel that I started the drama, but you all are the ones giving into it and prolonging it which doesn't make you any better than me.Btw sorry to stereotype the teens, I know there are mature teens and immature and I know nothing can be more painful for a teenmom than someone stereotyping them.For the record I was a teenmom and my daughter is about to turn 4 in september.