I am wondering if anyones problem re not getting sexual release might be due to the position of the clitoirs? If the clit is high and well hooded there would not be as much stimulation..
Maybe if you bring your hand down during sex and hold your clit hood up you can get stimulation this way or if you are doggy style then you certainly could use what ever help mate you wanted in working the clitoris-whether it be your hand his hand or a vibrator..

i'm 16 and have been having sex for awhile and have not orgasimed even when i try myself. My friends who masturbate can but i can't. I heard some women dont have clits now i'm scared that i'm like that. my bf thinks there is something wrong with me.

I was having problems with orgasms as well and someone told me I wouldn't until I get more "comfortable" with myself. Such as masturbating. I did not find that it worked. It actually wasn't until I started being on top more that I started to orgasm. Everyone is different.

can sum one plez help me.i am 29 with 4 kids.i havent really cared to much for having sex with my husband of 13 yrs..its not him cuz i luv him very much.but this has been going on since we had our first child.ive gottin to the point where i feel like its just another chore on my list.what is wrong with me?

Many women don't think they orgasm during intercourse because it honestly feels different. If the vaginal contractions are happening, you are orgasming. Your partner would know the difference. Most men would be asking you why they can't make you cum if they can't feel the orgasm (they take it as their own inability to please you). I am an older lady and have never had trouble with orgasms, but it took me a long time to realize and define what was happening to my body. Intercourse orgasms are much more spread out and you may not recognize them for what they are. Experiment with yourself.

The only way i can have an orgaism is if i hump my pillow and just think of him inside me and then i orgasim. And it doesnt happen when he's actually inside me, idk.

Hi ladies I'm a 20yr old male. I've unfortunately noticed this reoccuring problem as well. This is a very difficult and sore topic for men. To make matters worse every woman is different in that they need different things to stimulate them in the bedroom. I can't speak for all men, but I'm sure I can speak for a lot of them. Our main goal in the bedroom is not ourselfs. We know we will be satisfied, we want our beautiful ladies to be fullfilled as well. I think most of us, definitly myself, would be open to conversation about how to make our ladies have the best time they can. Don't be shy about it. Bad sex ruins relationships quicker than anything. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't let not having an orgasm go. Talk to us and we will do our best to make you happy.

hey i am 19 and been having sex with my first boyfriend for almost 7 months now, i kno he wants me to have an orgasim, but i cant! i have before with vibrators, but i feel embarassed tellin him that.

at this point he isnt in it to make me happy, but to satisfy himself. i feel so bad cuz i dont want to marry him and never have really great sex!

It hurts for me to have sex and I can not have an orgasm during sex, i have been to my doctor and he cannot find any thing wrong I am properly stimulated and I am in the mood, I just cannot understand why it hurts, It puts me off and we have to stop because It just hurts to much. I also haven't been able to orgasm during sex, my partner and I have tried many different positions and none of them seem to work for me.. im just not sure what I should do.

i am 22 and have orgasmed many times during intercourse, but just recently have lost all aspects of my sex drive, along with the ability to orgasm during intercourse. i dont know what is wrong =(

Thier right i have the same problem i know it sound weird but go on top and lie down push his penus agains you vargina and move your body up and down its ment to hit a womens certain G spot but dont do it too often or you wont have the same effect and it will either stop working or just start hurting but i hope that helps you if not try talking dirty during sex depends what u like on what they say if not have porn on in the back ground

I HOPE IT HELPS LET ME KNOW IF IT DOES

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Nick Justice,
Firstly, let me assure you that there is nothing wrong with you.
And you should assure your partner of the same. There is so much pressure on the partners but women have to 'learn' to orgasm and most of that is on themselves. Please do not take this to mean that you're at 'fault'..if there is such a thing here. Learning to orgasm takes time and best of all, practice! I've always found that the easiest orgasm to have is a clitoral stimulated orgasm (rather than a g spot orgasm). Try this out. Oral. toys. Most importantly...and I cannot stress this enough. HAVE FUN with this. If you're stressed about it, it will not happen. So relax and once your partner is reassured "baby, it's me not you" , she will have just as much fun playing.