I know what you are going through...My boyfriend got really freaked when I had a baby and he is still kinda freaked out and the baby is 4 months old already. It is normal. Most of the time yeah it is the women who feel it the most but men feel it to...Some are just more shallow than others, let's put it that way. You and your boyfriend need to learn that you guys are in the together and you need to work together. That is what a real relationship is, working through the "issues", or also know as "problems"...Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and counting and we love each other so much. But don't mistake it because we do fight like all normal couples do..Relationships aren't all peaches and cream. You will realize that....Hope I helped. I am a teen mother too so write me back!!

You can still have a life, you dreams are just something more worth accomplishing!!

You know you love me-
stacie

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Larisha, there are no reson that the both of you can't have bright futures. True, you may have to wait a little while until you can get over having the baby, but hun, I had my first at 16yrs. Old and my second at 17 yrs. Old, I had rough times but who dosen't? It all depends on how strong and willing you are to make it happen. My oldest is now 15 yrs. Old, and my baby is 14 yrs. Old, and I am a cosmetologist. But, hun, one thing to remember, if you are willing and determined, you can do it. But, you have got to think about you and that precious gift you have now, also, your boyfriend is grown, your baby isn't. Well good luck and i'm here if you need me.


Lhileman