I am similar to you. I have a 17 month baby girl, a 7 month baby boy and a pregnant with no.3. I am married also but I honestly don't think you are ever prepared for a baby. Me and my hubby had been together for 4 years and married for 2 when I had my first and it was still a shock and I felt that my freedom had been took away.

I think everyone gets times like that no matter what your age as the reality is that you aren't just to free to do what you want to do anymore and that is true whatever your age.

I think its pretty common sense that you need a place of your own. Most the regular girls on this forum are very responsible and put thier kids first so I don't really think your post is relevant to us.

Were I live I see lots and lots of teenage mom's who live their parents or the guys parents and its good the girls in here in here aren't in those situations,but I know the parents just want to help their children ofcourse and a lot of parents shouldn't really have to deal with it. Anyways my point is you never know who might feel the same.I've also been asked how do you know your ready to have children I say ofcourse what u said that ur never ready but you know I have a daughter and I know howhard it is so young and with so much responsibilities and i've had people do their stupid remareks even though I think i'm a good mom.I wouldn't want my daughter to be so young and go through what i've gone through.So if you think this topic isn't for you than go right ahead to the other topic.

I understand your comments (except the attitude at the end) but this is a support forum. We don't take kindly to people coming on here and lecturing us thank you

Ok,i admit when i'm wrong I thought I could write down my feelings sort of thing I take back what I said its just I was just writing what i've been seeing here a lot but I its cool that you help each other out.I felt like you were attacking my feelings.I m not a negative person.I'm sorry again.