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Q: Little Confused About Why I'm Pregnant
asked by: PRSmama on August 10th, 2006
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Hello everyone:
looking for a little educated advice. I am brand new pregnant, missed my period on the weekend, took a test on monday night--very strong.
This is my fourth. Did alot of research for number one b/c it took forever, so I like to think i'm fairly knowledgeable here, but this one has me stumped.
I always have pain with ovulation, and I had it strong two weeks ago this past weekend-the sunday night to be exact. Since we don't really use any bc, i'm still nursing (not that it makes a difference, my cycles been back for months), so we vaguely use natural family planning--mostly I just tell him when to stay away from me. The o pain has been a good indicator in the past.
So then we weren't together until the tuesday night, a full 48 hours after the pain. I was confident this was long enough. Apparently not.
I checked through all my books again and the best I found was a resource that says after ovulation, the egg will live for 12-24 hours. That's less than I was counting on--i thought 36 hours. Even if I didn't ovulate until closer to monday morning, 36 hours should have put us in the clear by tuesday night. Dontcha think?

So what's the deal? Doesn't ovulation pain happen while ovulation is occurring? Or way before? And how long will those little eggies live anyway?
Please help me clear up my little mystery.
Thanks,
prsmama
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Becky
replied on August 11th, 2006
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Hi there I wouldn't count on just pain to tell you that you are ovulating. This is not accurate (as you have found) to do natural family planning there are alot of factors that you need to take into account such as body temperature (this rises slightly near ovulation) and cervial mucous etc.

Doctors do not recommend it unless you do not mind getting pregnant again as it has the lowest sucess rate.

You say you are still nursing... How old is your baby? And is this your fourth pregnancy or fourth test?

Good luck with everything
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Emma2
replied on August 11th, 2006
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Hun I am sorry to say but those pains dont always mean your ovulating. And it should never be only that youre relying on. Those pains acan happen "b.E.F.O.R.E. , during or after ovulation" ......I think you learned your lesson now about assuming whats going on without further proof. Congrats!
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PRSmama
replied on August 11th, 2006
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Thanks for the thoughts ladies. Beckster, this is my fourth baby. Little one is almost 15 months. This pregnancy was (obviously) a surprise, but i'm gettin' into it. Always had a feeling i'd have four, just wasn't thinking quite so close.... :wink:
the pain has been pretty reliable in the past--it got me the other three. I don't keep charts anymore on the cm, but I do take notice. Gave up temps a while ago as i'm never asleep long enough to get an accurate one! (my kids are lousy sleepers) 'sides, it's always after the fact.
I'd still like to know a definitive answer to the life span of the ovum....Anyone else got the goods?
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Mabel
replied on August 11th, 2006
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prsmama wrote:
thanks for the thoughts ladies. Beckster, this is my fourth baby. Little one is almost 15 months. This pregnancy was (obviously) a surprise, but i'm gettin' into it. Always had a feeling i'd have four, just wasn't thinking quite so close.... :wink:
the pain has been pretty reliable in the past--it got me the other three. I don't keep charts anymore on the cm, but I do take notice. Gave up temps a while ago as i'm never asleep long enough to get an accurate one! (my kids are lousy sleepers) 'sides, it's always after the fact.


I'd still like to know a definitive answer to the life span of the ovum....Anyone else got the goods?


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Emma2
replied on August 11th, 2006
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prsmama wrote:
thanks for the thoughts ladies. Beckster, this is my fourth baby. Little one is almost 15 months. This pregnancy was (obviously) a surprise, but i'm gettin' into it. Always had a feeling i'd have four, just wasn't thinking quite so close.... :wink:
the pain has been pretty reliable in the past--it got me the other three. I don't keep charts anymore on the cm, but I do take notice. Gave up temps a while ago as i'm never asleep long enough to get an accurate one! (my kids are lousy sleepers) 'sides, it's always after the fact.

I'd still like to know a definitive answer to the life span of the ovum....Anyone else got the goods?


12-24 hours ..Some eggs start to detiriorate as early as the 6 hour mark
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