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asked by: trina1 on August 10th, 2006
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I will start this out by saying that my post has little to do with abortion...But everything to do with life and death and living again. One on hear has chosen to make accusations against me and I have chosen today to clear up the accusations. On july 2, 2001 I left my house at 7 a.M. With my 15 year old son and my 10 month old son to take my mother to the Dr. They had found a mass in her lung and we were going to find out what they thought it was. I left my 5 year old home with my husband as they were going to go buy fireworks. At 8 a.M. We found out that my mother had cancer of the lung and that she would have to have a pneumonectomy....Removal of the entire lung. I called my husband and he said to stay with my mother as long as need be....That we would all get through this. I did stay with my mom. I took her home and we talked, fixed lunch and then I started home. I had tried to call my husband several times but there was no answer...I figured he was out buying fireworks. When I arrived at my house around 1 p.M....My five year old met me at the door saying..."daddy is dead." I ran in to find that my husband was laying on the floor dead. My poor five year old had been with him all this time. My husband was getting ready to go buy fireworks and he had told my son not to answer the phone or go outside while he was getting ready. My son said all he heard was his daddy yell "ouch" and when he went in to see what was going on...His daddy was already dead....My son did his best to revive my husband....And he did just as he was told until I got there. He stayed in the house and didn't answer the phone. The official cause of death was a a berry aneurysm located at the base of the brain that he had most likely had since birth. He was dead before he hit the floor. Following this situation my mother had her surgery, had radiation, chemo, and still we eventually lost her on dec. 22, 2002. After all this death I needed to think about life. I needed to support life and I needed to fight for life....And that is exactly what I do. I don't judge women for getting pregnant or even for having abortions.....But if I can help one woman who is unsure about having an abortion find a way to preserve life....Then yes....I will do it in a heart beat. I don't care a hoot what one individual on here thinks of me....But I do rather like the rest of you...And I am a little sick of being called a husband killer...Since I loved mine so much. I would hate to think any one of you actually believed lolbaha's sick drivel. The reason I chose today to tell this story? Because today is my wedding anniversary....And even though it has been five years since he died....I still miss him like it was yesterday.
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diamond splinter replied on August 10th, 2006
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Trina I am so sorry that was awful what a brave little boy you have and don't worry hun no one on here pays any attention to anything bahaha says and those that do well they are just as small minded as her.
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trina1 replied on August 10th, 2006
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diamond splinter wrote:
trina I am so sorry that was awful what a brave little boy you have and don't worry hun no one on here pays any attention to anything bahaha says and those that do well they are just as small minded as her.


yes...My son is my hero. Really....All my kids are. They have been through more in their short lives than some ever have to go through. Thank you for your kindness...But really...I just wan'ted to set the record straight....Especially today.
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Tylanas replied on August 10th, 2006
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I don't think anyone believed her. No one takes her seriously anymore.
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HappyBaby replied on August 10th, 2006
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Oh trina i'm so so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how painful it must have been for you. Don't worry, no-one believes you killed your husband and I really can't believe that someone could stoop so low as to accuse you of it. Lolbah must genuinely have something wrong with her, I think, because it isn't normal behaviour.

Just remember that there are people here that respect you and like you - I mean I know I don't know you personally but from your posts I can see you are a very caring and kind person.

I don't believe in a specific religion but i'm sure wherever your husband and mum are now they are so proud of you and your children, and would tell you to hold your head up high because you are so much better than those who try to bring you down.

Big hugs,

happybaby.
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lil_blaze2004 replied on August 10th, 2006
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Oh wow trina. I remember you telling us a bit but I can't believe your baby had to stay with his dead daddy for that long. What a strong lil man he must be. I'm sorry for your loss.

As for lolbaha-whatever. No one believes her crap, but thank you for sharing.
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nightangel73 replied on August 10th, 2006
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lolbahlolbah159 wrote:
trina1 wrote:
i don't care a hoot what one individual on here thinks of me


if that was true, you wouldn't have written this fairy tale, husband killer.


let me tell you what happens with bahaha. She's a virgin, she still can't find a man to have sex so she is bitter and releases her frustation trying to insult people online.

I'm sorry for you loss trina!
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sandyallen replied on August 10th, 2006
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Trina
I am soo sorry to hear about your husband and your .Mom and your little boy having to experience it. It is hell losing a piece of you but you do still have your children, which helps.
About losing your .Mom, my .Mom left this earth the same way when I was 7 y/o but an operation or chemo or nothing would have helped her so fortunately she died at home and then she did not suffer anymore.

I kind of feel towards abortion the same way after being a nurse and a social worker , I explained their rights to them. I do not like to see a baby, child, adult or even an animal suffer here on earth or abused or neglected, etc. Believe me, you see this alot, that is why I am glad that their is a choice! Heck, I did not want my 2m/c or my 2 very much needed abortions but their are times that they are needed and I am thankful for the 2 grown one's that I have. When you had a good friend that needed a professional abortion that could not get one because of the law being against it, then twodays after she bleeds out and die's and they okay the abortion it gets sickening. I am truly sorry again for your losses!
Their are people here that say negative things about and to me, I just ignore them, as difficult as it is sometimes it just makes me feel like a better person!
All the best to you and yours!
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Moo replied on August 11th, 2006
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I'm so sorry to hear that trina
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