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Q: I Think She As Gone Off Me
asked by: Paul36 on August 10th, 2006
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Me and my partner have been together for 15 years and I love her to bits and we have two kids 10 and 13 we are just an average happy family getting on with life.
The problem is our sex life we dont seem to have one before our youngest child we were at it at least once a week now when we do have sex I feel as if she only does it to stop me moaning, believe me I have tryed everything to put the spark back in our relationship I love her so much and she no's it we just seem so incompatible I have a high sex drive and she as a low sex drive. I am not just been a typical man I love and respect her but I am at my witts end and I am getting thaughts off playing away wich I hopefully wont as I have a lot to loose and above all dont want to hurt anyone and rip my family apart
please any help advice welcome

regards paul
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Spirit replied on August 10th, 2006
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Yeah, 15 years is a long time............It's hard not to get into the dull boring routine of life. Well you suggest that you might perhaps stray?!

Why not try this? Alot of times we start to take each other for granted whether we realize it or not........So..........Treat her like she's the "other woman" ....Ie brand new in your life............Now you got to impress this new woman, what do guys do?
Dress to the nines, cologne, sexy undies(throw out the tighty whities), listen with great interest in everything she says, dates, dates must have dates, call just to say "i love you" or "i miss you so much", bring small gifts.........Throw in little mind benders...............

............Just so happens that my beau get ho*ny as he** whenever there's a full moon........Always think about him when I see one............While driving home from work last night, look up and lo and behold....What's up in the sky.......A huge bright full moon.............Almost drove off the road.

If all else fails there's always counselling........Don't wait for it to get worse.....Needs work now. :)
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help replied on February 11th, 2007
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spirit wrote:
yeah, 15 years is a long time............It's hard not to get into the dull boring routine of life. Well you suggest that you might perhaps stray?!

Why not try this? Alot of times we start to take each other for granted whether we realize it or not........So..........Treat her like she's the "other woman" ....Ie brand new in your life............Now you got to impress this new woman, what do guys do?

Dress to the nines, cologne, sexy undies(throw out the tighty whities), listen with great interest in everything she says, dates, dates must have dates, call just to say "i love you" or "i miss you so much", bring small gifts.........Throw in little mind benders...............


............Just so happens that my beau get ho*ny as he** whenever there's a full moon........Always think about him when I see one............While driving home from work last night, look up and lo and behold....What's up in the sky.......A huge bright full moon.............Almost drove off the road.


If all else fails there's always counselling........Don't wait for it to get worse.....Needs work now. Smile


what sort of advice is, why not trying an affair?!?!?! If you were my man and you did that, you would have more than limited sex to deal with, you would also have divorce papers!! Straying wont solve your problems, it will only create more! Have you tried sitting down and talking to her about how you feel?? Maybe she needs to know how you feel??? If you love and respect her as much as much as you say you do, you wont stray!
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