I was on a form of hormone birth control the pill and tried several kinds and options and never found one that didn't mess me up I had no sex drive , break through bleeding all kinds of fun stuff I then went off the pill completly and me and my husband planned and got pregnant with our first child , this baby is due the end of febuary , I want to be on some kind of effective birth control other than the pill after the baby and one that does not have hormones.... I have been told about the copper iud but have only heard horror stories of that , I know there is the diaphram but I am not sure how well that works and yes there are condoms but thats like a last option , any sugestions or expreinces would be greatly appreciated.