A friend of mine from my hometown suggest me to read the book "why men marry health forum". Really the author uses the word "health forum" to refer to women that are strong willed so uses this satirical term. I readed through the book and I can understand now why I have lost a number of relationships and why I have been succesful with the relationship that I am now. Look this book is 100% thruth a must to read to every single lady there trying to date. It tells you a lot of feedback on how the relationship should look like, what you should say and not say and the reason behind both. It talks about the fears that men have that they won't tell you. In fact it tells all that a man can think of when it comes to relationships and how they choose their mate to marry. She interviewed hundreds of guys to get to her conclusions and I have reviewed with some of my coworkers and they all agree. Wished I had readed this book years back.