Need Help (same As Teen Preg) Posted: 08-08-06 22:08pm
I don't believe I am pregnant, though I
don't want to assume wrongly only to have
my heart ripped out of my chest to find
out that I am (to be blunt, and we all
know it must feel like that when you're
not expecting)..
Anyway - I am supposed to be getting my
period this week. I have had the usual
symptoms of pms - bloating, gassy..
That's all really. Sometimes I get sick,
sometimes I don't.
Well, I had unprotected sex (yes, yes. No
need to scold me, i've heard it already)
on the 28th and 30th of july. Both times,
he never got all the way in (just the
head), he was never in for more than 10 -
30 seconds and he never came (i know
pre-cum exists and all that).
Also, I ended up having protected sex (i
was smart this time!) on the 5th and 6th
of july. On the 5th he never went in all
the way and he came outside of me. On the
6th, he finally got in all the way, and
once again, the condom didn't break and he
pulled out before he came.
Emotionally - I am not ready for this. I
never wanted to have sex until I was
married (excuse my story, but I feel it's
necessary for explaining the rest) and I
went back on my promise to myself, my
family and god. It makes me feel sick to
my stomach when I think about it
(literally) but once I am able to keep my
mind occupied on other things, it goes
away.
Anyway, I have been waking up kind of sick
to my stomach. I don't feel like throwing
up, however. Also, the mornings I wake up
feeling like that, it has been because I
have been worried and thinking alot the
nights before I wake about what would
happen if I was to become pregnant
(there's a lot of stuff on my mind).
I haven't taken a pregnancy test yet but I
am going to be getting one within the next
week. I would just like some help,
honestly some reassurance, that perhaps my
feelings are because of stress and actual
pms - not pregnancy.
If I could have several opinions, I would
appreciate it.
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brookster29
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 28 Location: ,
Posted: 08-08-06 22:53pm
I can honestly tell you from experience
that when we think we might be pregnant,
however unlikely it is, we convince
ourselves and our bodies that we're having
symptoms. I had been having sex with my
boyfriend about once every two weeks, (we
lived in different towns), but every time
was with a condom. Still, I thought I was
a week late for my period and I freaked
out and started having sypmtoms, tender
breasts, being moody, sickness and aches
and pains....(which by the way are all
common signs of pms). Anyway, turns out I
was a week off on my counting and I wasn't
even due to have my period for another
week. I also stayed up all night worrying
about what would happen if I were
pregnant. Anyway, if you are still
feeling like this and dont get a period I
would definitely take an at home test.
There are some that are more sensitive and
can identify the pregnancy hormone up to a
week before your missed period. Most come
with two tests...So take one...Then wait a
week or so and take the other, if it comes
to this point. And if you are pregnant,
(which I highly doubt you are) talk to
your gyno, or go to a local clinic there
is lots of help available no matter how
you choose to handle the pregnancy...
...But dont worry, I honestly dont think
you're pregnant. I know how you feel
though!
Good luck
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babiisparkle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 14 Location: in my skin
Posted: 08-10-06 02:01am
I dont belive your pregnant because u said
he did put it in although u said he did
the time be4. Sou could be pregnant cause
I thought the same thing to me but I was
having unprotected sex n ma boifren nutted
in me I could have been pregnant so many
times now n im not yet but dont get me
wrong I want to be pregnant in all ( sry
started to go off topic ) but take a hpt
ight then u still dont feels right then go
see a doctor
