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r0k1t

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Joined: 01 Aug 2006
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Posted: 08-08-06 21:38pm

I don't believe I am pregnant, though I don't want to assume wrongly only to have my heart ripped out of my chest to find out that I am (to be blunt, and we all know it must feel like that when you're not expecting)..

Anyway - I am supposed to be getting my period this week. I have had the usual symptoms of pms - bloating, gassy.. That's all really. Sometimes I get sick, sometimes I don't.

Well, I had unprotected sex (yes, yes. No need to scold me, i've heard it already) on the 28th and 30th of july. Both times, he never got all the way in (just the head), he was never in for more than 10 - 30 seconds and he never came (i know pre-cum exists and all that).

Also, I ended up having protected sex (i was smart this time!) on the 5th and 6th of july. On the 5th he never went in all the way and he came outside of me. On the 6th, he finally got in all the way, and once again, the condom didn't break and he pulled out before he came.

Emotionally - I am not ready for this. I never wanted to have sex until I was married (excuse my story, but I feel it's necessary for explaining the rest) and I went back on my promise to myself, my family and god. It makes me feel sick to my stomach when I think about it (literally) but once I am able to keep my mind occupied on other things, it goes away.

Anyway, I have been waking up kind of sick to my stomach. I don't feel like throwing up, however. Also, the mornings I wake up feeling like that, it has been because I have been worried and thinking alot the nights before I wake about what would happen if I was to become pregnant (there's a lot of stuff on my mind).

I haven't taken a pregnancy test yet but I am going to be getting one within the next week. I would just like some help, honestly some reassurance, that perhaps my feelings are because of stress and actual pms - not pregnancy.

If I could have several opinions, I would appreciate it.
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ANGELOS MAMA

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Joined: 26 Jul 2006
Posts: 1128
Location: , San Diego,California

Posted: 08-09-06 01:05am

Just giving you some words of encouragement.Your prolly just late.But then again.If I were you right after you had unprotected sex you should of took ec.
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Becky

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Joined: 01 Jan 2006
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Posted: 08-09-06 05:28am

Hi it sounds like you are so guilty and worried about having unprotected sex that your body is mimicking (sp?) the signs of pregnancy.

However this may not be the case and you could still be pregnant. I concieved my son on pre-cum. You should take a test if your period is late.

You should never feel pressurised into having sex. If you don't wanna do it just tell the guy. If he truly loves you he will wait. If he doesn't then he's not worth it.

Even though you have had sex now you can still wait til your married before you do it again. Everyone makes mistakes and this will be a comprimise. It doesn't make you a bad person to have sex before marriage.

I wish you all the luck for the future
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haliparot

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2004
Posts: 209
Location: San Diego, CA United States

Posted: 08-11-06 11:29am

Hello i'm 18 years old...I lost my virginity at 17 and after a few times of having sex I told myself that i'm not going to that again...I promised to myself my parents and god...But well I try to do my best..I even stop the pill because I thougth the pill is a form of encouragement for me to have sex..My bf is ok about it...He always says it is up to me..If I don't want sex then he will not force me or anything like that...For a month and a half everything is working fine "complete abstinence" I may say..But hahaha I gave up...It didn't work...My hormones and my urge for sex dictated me...We used condoms and all but i'm so hard at myself that I even took ec even though the condom didn't break..Oh well I hope you are not pregnant...
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~*~Jillian~*~

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA

Posted: 08-11-06 17:07pm

--i thought I remembered seeing a post from you before...--looking back at all your post..You seem to be having "pregnancy scares"..Alot maybe you should get on birth control if you arent already on it..
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