Oo, oo, had to jump into this good topic.
Midwives are awesome! I've always
thought of them as the 'birth
specialists'; after all, that's completely
what their training and experience is
about! Compare that to the Dr. Who's
dabbled in this and that and has more
general knowledge. Midwives are usually
more willing to do things 'more
naturally', like stretch you instead of an
episiotomy.
I've had three and newly pregnant with
number 4. I had the same midwife for
all, and just booked her in again (so glad
she's free next spring!) she's like a
close, yet professional friend now. My
appointments were 1/2 hour to an hour long
and we would chat away about everything
that concerned me.
My son ended up being born in the hospital
due to birth defects, but my midwife had
priviledges there so it was no problem.
When my daughters proved completely
healthy during the pregnancies, I went for
the home birth. I too have felt for a
long time that pregnancy and birth is
normal and shouldn't be treated like a
medical event, and you like a patient.
My homebirths were quick (5 hours, 8
hours) relaxed and I had complete
confidence in my midwife. They bring
everything needed to deal with
emergencies, and these ladies are so
skilled that they can tell if anything is
not right in time to get you to the
hospital. In canada (ontario at least),
the criteria for when a midwife needs to
pass you off to an ob is pretty stringent.
You would not be homebirthing if there
was a danger to you or baby.
There is tonnes of info out there on
homebirthing, the safety, the advantages.
If you're at all interested in what's
healthiest and most natural for you and
babe, it's worth looking into. I would't
do it any other way now!