How do you make someone understand your side of the story? My boyfriend and I found out we were prego last week. He wants the big a. I refuse. He said he wants to fall in love naturally and get married someday and then we could have kids. He said he doesnt want an illegitamate child and he's not ready to get married because he isnt 100% unconditionally in love with me yet. I told him that I thought the exact same thing but too bad!! We knew there was a possibility, we knew this could happen. He doesnt want it, but I wont give it up. I did not want to get prego, but I did. And now I will love and nourish this child when he/she comes. We're having this baby whether he likes it or not. I am not going to let down my guard... My religion, morals, etc. And I will do everything I can to give this child a good life. But... I dont think he will support my decision. I think if I continue that we are going to be through. Any advice on how I might get him to rethink or reconsider his view of this? He is a great guy, amazing, wonderful... Until it comes to this. So he's not ready to pass out cigars to his buddies... Well... Why does that reason justify the a in his mind!?