Good afternoon ppl. I will try and keep this short.. I am a 31yr old lesbian, few mnths ago went through a major breakup. Cried cried, whatever, I moved on. Have met a few girls but not ever interested on any until I meet this 33 yr old 'straight' girl, so I thought. We got along well, kept in contact through email. I thought about this girl a lot!! I always wished she was gay, never crossed my mind that I would end up making out with her for hours about a month after we met. She confessed to me that since she met me she thought about me too and that confussed her. Few days later she says that she wants us to start going out. Then days later says that if she was not totally straight, she would definitely choose me. I figured i'd take it slow with this one. But week after week I noticed that she was becoming more and more distant, we never went out btw. Even noticed a change in attitude through emails and texts. All of a sudden she tells me that she is in love with some guy she met on a trip a few weeks before we met, he's been visiting her from mx.
One night I asked if I could get something off my chest and asked her if she was avoiding me? I guess I was too forward cause she never responded. Next day I apologized (texted) if she felt uncomfortable and she said it was cool. Never heard from her again, this was about 2 wks ago.
I guess all this hurt my feelings cause I really like her. Dont know what to think of this or what to do. She is a friend of a friend so I know I will eventually run into her again. Did I scare her off? It seems that see got scared of her own feelings so will I have a chance with her if I do things right? What can I do to make this happen?