I've been sexually active since I was 16. My first time wasn't really pleasant and it wasn't until my last two bf that I felt pleasure from having sex but even then I had no vaginal orgasm. Is there something I can do to get it? I know the stuff about experimenting but it didn't really help..My ex told me I had to trust my partner more and relax (which is quite hard for me coz I feel my brain is always thinking about something even though I don't know what). Can someone help me with this problem?