I separated from my husband of 15 years (20 years together) in july 2005. Our seperation was mutual and amicable.

I met a wonderful man whom I love tremendously. Once in a while out of the blue, i'll call him by my husband's name. Its not something I do consciously or intentionally, his name just comes out of my mouth and then I realize what i've said. What puzzles me is that I don't even think about my ex-husband.

My boyfriends makes a huge issue out of this and I don't know what to do. Help?