My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 1/2 years. We both love each other very much but the problem is lately we have been fighting all of the time. It is we seem to both get angry at even the little things lately. Now this could be caused by the fact that we live with each other. What is awful it the day after we move into a new house (and sign a year lease) my boyfriend says he wants to take a break. Both of us lately have been unhappy but we can't seem to figure out what is making us unhappy. He says he loves me with all his heart and it kills him that he is upset but he said we both go back and forth and just fight all of the time. Like when if i'm not mad at him that he is mad at me and vice versa. It is so hard because we have just been arguing over little things like closing the windows when we leave the house. We have both decided to not see other peopel because we only want to be with each other but I don't know how to act. I don't know if I should leave him alone and not talk to him or if I should just try to act like we are just meeting again for the first time. I am frustrated because we share a car also and so it is not like we can get away from each other and I hate the fact that we are even on this break. We also share a room which does include a bed. We don't do anything in bed together but it is so confusing. I have tried to have him even act as my friend (like at least talk to me so we can figure this out) but he does not seem to want to talk to me. He talks to complete strangers more then me. I do understand that I am to moody and so is he. The problem is we both want each other and love each other but we don't want to always fight. How can I change that without becoming the person who always gives in (even though at this point I would give in to most things) except when he yells for no reason. Is there anyway to change this and again how do you act towards each other on a break?