Okay. I need to talk to other people about my situation than just my mom. I don't want to tell any of my friends, etc, until I am 100% positive. (though I am 80% certain I am pregnant)



being the dummy I am, I had unprotected intercourse multiple times during my ovulation period (dec 29th - jan 2nd). Today is exactly 30 days since my last period began. Usually there is only a 26-27 day differance between the first days of each period. In the last few months of last year, there was only 24-25 days inbetween, due to stress I am guessing. On saterday the 10th, I had thought I had gotten my period early, due to a tiny bit of blood on the tissue when I went to the bathroom, not heavy enough to show up on my underwear, but then it stopped the same day. Now again, last night, I had spotted again, but very small. Very weak, almost non-existant periods. I have never spotted before, ever. Usually my periods are extremely heavy. They always come without warning and flood my underwear, bedding, etc. I got a pregnancy test on the 15th, but that was less than 2 weeks from conterception. The results were negative. My doctor told me I could not have 100% accurate results until the 23rd. Not to mention I read multiple times, when taking a test, it is supposed to be the first urane you pass in the morning, for more concentration, etc. I took the test in mid-afternoon after school. I dont really have any symptoms. My mom said when she was pregnant, she had extremely sore breats, and in my fathers side, they usually have morning sickness. I am aware its soon, but I have none of those signs. I am mostly just very tired all the time. Then again, I usually am, so that proves nothing. I just really needed to get this off my chest. Thanks for listening

edit: I guess I should mention that I am 16, 17 on march 15th
edit2: I have to get some more stuff off my chest. In a way, I am happy, that I may be pragnant. If I am not, I plan on not telling anyone. Keep it between my mother and i, and go on the pill. If I am, I plan on telling the guy (no question on the dad) about it after I get the test done. I plan on asking him straight up, in person, "im pragnant. Will you take responsibility and be a daddy?" my mother and I taked about this. Her opinion is very clear, and I mostly agree. If he will do the right thing, I will have the baby, if not, then she wants me to go to calgary and abort. I have done the math, and figured I could handle being a single mother, but it would be extremely hard, and I would finish school at least a year late. (i am already a year behind school). I dont really want to miss out on my education. It would be easier for me to finish school if he helped out. The only thing is, I am not sure how he will take the news. He is the "big tough" type. Always must be right and get his way. Slightly controlling. Not exactly my knight in shining armor. Very upfront with his opinions. He's a nice guy once you get to know him. Would never harm a female if you are wondering. He is 20, has a job, and his father owns a couple very big companys in alberta. There would not be any money problems if he was involved. I have known him for over a year, and hes one of the "cool mustang guys". All about fast cars and bar hopping. I dont really know what to think. So many things going through my head right now. I don't exctly want to move in with him or anything, just, as I said, for him to be involved. Other things on my mind is that I am a smoker. I don't have the willpower to quit yet, since the stress of this is just huge. And at the beginning of the month I was drinking heavily, for the end of the holidays and for the sake that I am halfway through this school year, etc. I know its not a big deal yet. I have already avoided alcohol since that one saterday when I spotted, but I cant "butt-it-out" yet. I could go on endlessly about this. I'll stop now.