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Q: what?
asked by: angel_grrl_69 on July 29th, 2006
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Geez how com ppl here are so mean? I cant even ask a simpel question an my topic gets locked. what is wrong w/ you ppl? If my topic is locked then I want every1 elses locked too cuz that would make it fair. My questin is jus as impportnt as any other girls here so I dunno why ur pickin on me. If its b/c im new then ur lower than dirt.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Are you serious?!?!?!? You tell us that you shook your baby and want to know why it got locked?!?!?!

You shook your baby because he was crying which could lead to .S.E.R.I.O.U.S brain damage. Your son probably isn't crying because you injured his brain. Don't be surprised if you little baby turns into a vegatable....

The reason why .Kia locked your posts is so you wouldn't get bashed on by women who love their babies.

Think about it before you post again hunny!

Sarah
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angel_grrl_69
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Well scuse me I didnt shake my baby on purpose. I asked a honest question an kia needs 2 grow up a lil b4 bein able to block ppls questions cuz of her opinions. I already reported her to teh site owners for her dumbness so maybe she'll learn not 2 be so biassed once she's banned.

And hey I never said anything bad bout other mothers here. They cant say they never made a misstake in their lives w/ caring 4 there babies b/c no human is perfect so I think I deserve an equal rite to have my question viewed as they do I mean it aint like I killed my baby
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megums1211
replied on July 29th, 2006
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What kind of a question is.... "i shook my baby, is she ok?" of course she's not ok !!! Take her to the emergency room right away !! If you are that angry at your screaming, crying child then maybe you should let someone else handle her. You should never shake an infant! No matter how tired or cranky or frustrated you are! Maybe, instead of shaking her, you could hold her and cudle her and love her? Babies are fragile, they need love and care not anger and abuse.... Being a mom means giving up your own comfort (sleep and sanity) for the comfort of you child...

And i'm positive we all know why the post was locked.... For the same reason this one will get locked...
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innocent1989
replied on July 29th, 2006
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She right wether it was n purpose or accident shaking a baby is serious it can cause damage and cot damage on a tiny baby.
I dont know u so im not jumping to conclusions but if u come on here mouthin goff like u just did and speaking with an attiude no1 will wanna answer ya questions and wont wanna chat with u and they will get locked and u can get banned.

Lauren xx
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Nataliachick7
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Looks to me like this is some fake trying to stir caca up!

Congratulations! You have a retarded baby now. But hey, at least you can get some sleep!
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innocent1989
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Me natalia
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Lol .Natalia! Yea you right!!

Honestly, I hope she's a faker trying to still caca up, cuz if not, homegirls got issues.

To angel: nobody accused you of bad mouthing anyone on here. I made the statement to warn you about the mothers who love their babies on this site. We don't take caca like this lightly.

So if you are a faker, do yourself a favor and save some time by bouncin out.

If you did shake your baby and you are admitting it, you could seriously pay for your actions. You'd be surprised how much info. A person can get just from a screen name. Enough to prosecute you and your actions..

Sarah
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innocent1989
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Ohh sorry I thought u called me fake sorry natalia, I think theres something odd about her if not shes abit twisted
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michelle1981
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Is something medically wrong with you angel_grrl_69? Are you mentally challenged? Seriously!

You never shake your baby!!!!! If you are that frustrated, leave the room and calm yourself down, then deal with him.
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angel_grrl_69
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Well at least kia wasnt mean enough to block this.


First of all I didnt shake my baby hard. Second of all it was an accident. Hes just sleepin more and not crying. And no im not a faker - im a teen mom looking for some answers. I dont shake my baby regularly or anything. It was once and it was an accident. I was very tired and very cranky and no one else was home to watch my son and I did everything I could to make him stop crying. I fed him, changed him, rocked him, patted him, gave him a pacifyer, sang to him...You name it and I did it. But he didnt stop and I just snapped.


But he still giggles and coos and eats and poops so I guess hes ok. Oh and I dont got insurance so I cant go to a doctor anyway. Thanks anyway.
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jgtc06
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Poor baby sounds like he needs a new home. Maybe a mother with more patience. I'm 18 and my niece lives with me. She is 2 months old. I am 36 weeks preggo with my own son. I take care of my nice during the night while my brother is working. If I can take care of a 2 month old baby girl and my pregnant self. I know other people can do it as well. If I were you I would take your baby to the hopsital asap to see if thier is anything exstensivly wrong with him.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on July 29th, 2006
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angel_grrl_69 wrote:
well at least kia wasnt mean enough to block this.



First of all I didnt shake my baby hard. Second of all it was an accident. Hes just sleepin more and not crying. And no im not a faker - im a teen mom looking for some answers. I dont shake my baby regularly or anything. It was once and it was an accident. I was very tired and very cranky and no one else was home to watch my son and I did everything I could to make him stop crying. I fed him, changed him, rocked him, patted him, gave him a pacifyer, sang to him...You name it and I did it. But he didnt stop and I just snapped.



But he still giggles and coos and eats and poops so I guess hes ok. Oh and I dont got insurance so I cant go to a doctor anyway. Thanks anyway.


kia hasn't locked it because she hasn't read it yet....Just wait.

You, on a serious note, need to leave befor you get jumped on by all of the mothers on this site. You will get bombarded with insulting things because what you did is unethical and not of motherly instinct.

If it gets that bad, you should try the .Ferber method before shaking him. The .Ferber method is a "cry it out" method. I'd prefer you do that than shake him.

Sarah
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Sandbox Party
replied on July 29th, 2006
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That baby needs to be taken from you, you pathetic excuse for a human being.

I hope somebody shakes .H.E.R til she stops crying.
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Nataliachick7
replied on July 29th, 2006
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angel_grrl_69 wrote:
well at least kia wasnt mean enough to block this.



First of all I didnt shake my baby hard. Second of all it was an accident. Hes just sleepin more and not crying. And no im not a faker - im a teen mom looking for some answers. I dont shake my baby regularly or anything. It was once and it was an accident. I was very tired and very cranky and no one else was home to watch my son and I did everything I could to make him stop crying. I fed him, changed him, rocked him, patted him, gave him a pacifyer, sang to him...You name it and I did it. But he didnt stop and I just snapped.



But he still giggles and coos and eats and poops so I guess hes ok. Oh and I dont got insurance so I cant go to a doctor anyway. Thanks anyway.


you are sickening. And obviously not ready to handle children. You should have given it up for adoption. Do you realize that your child probably has brain damage because of you? In your other post you said since you shook him he doesnt cry anymore. .O.B.V.I.O.U.S.L.Y there is something wrong you fool! When you shake a baby you can cause the brain to bleed. My son is colicky and cries almost all day. I would never do that to my son. Its called .P.A.T.I.E.N.C.E.
Do your son a favor and put him up for adoption, before you do anymore damage to him. And next time close your legs or use birth control. I feel sorry for your child!
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rosejackson
replied on July 29th, 2006
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You should never in a million years shake your child! That is classified as child cruelty! If you don't have the patience to look after your baby then you shouldn't of had him to begin with. Jesus, the baby deserves better than that! Kia was right to block your old post. Of course the baby could be hurt and you should take it to hospital asap! He could have brain damage because of you anc could possibly die. Do you understand the damage you have caused?
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Zanny
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Why did you even bother posting? Surely you realised all these mothers would pounce on you and give you nothing but verbal abuse? And rightfully so in my opinion.. I've seen how frustrating it can be when a baby won't stop crying, my nephew is only 6 months old and I see it all the time.. And in a few months i'll have my own baby to look after.. But really, there was no need to be so violent towards your child.

I hope you are a faker and it never actually happened.. Coz otherwise you have a poor helpless baby who needs a new mother, and who probably needs medical attention straight away.
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Sandbox Party
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Honestly, shes probably a fake trying to see what type of drama she can cause.

Just ignore her.
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rosejackson
replied on July 29th, 2006
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I really hope that she is a fake. No child would deserve a mother like that. I really do hope that no child was put to any harm aswell. I agree, we should just ignore her whether she is a fake or not because even if she isnt, this isnt a place for someone like her
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AlliE_18
replied on July 29th, 2006
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angel_grrl_69 wrote:
well at least kia wasnt mean enough to block this.



First of all I didnt shake my baby hard. Second of all it was an accident. Hes just sleepin more and not crying. And no im not a faker - im a teen mom looking for some answers. I dont shake my baby regularly or anything. It was once and it was an accident. I was very tired and very cranky and no one else was home to watch my son and I did everything I could to make him stop crying. I fed him, changed him, rocked him, patted him, gave him a pacifyer, sang to him...You name it and I did it. But he didnt stop and I just snapped.



But he still giggles and coos and eats and poops so I guess hes ok. Oh and I dont got insurance so I cant go to a doctor anyway. Thanks anyway.


what you saying thanks for?! If we could, im sure we'd all beat the crap out of you so bad you couldnt get pregnant ever again you psychotic really prostitute! You dont deserve to be called a mom, you're a pathetic excuse for a human being, what you did is .S.I.C.K and someone should .R.E.P.O.R.T you! If anyone can, please do it!!....That poor innocent baby needs a new home and a real mother. You should take him to the hospital (i dont give a sh*t if you dont have health insurance) tell them you shook him, and how his behaviour has changed since, so they can check him out thoroughly to make sure you havent caused any lasting damage, I bet they wouldnt just let you walk out with him once you tell them that, even if you dont have insurance! Whatever happens to him is all .Y.O.U.R fault, the least you could do is take him to see a doctor!
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