Wow I guess I will be able to answer all of your questions for you. I have herpes, and this will be my second c-section, I am currently 31 weeks.
As for the herpes goes, I have only had a few outbreaks since I have been infected,a little over a year. I have had one outbreak, last week, since I have been pregnant. My doctor gave me a prescription for the valtrex, I am supposed to take it once a day, until the prescription is done.
He said that a lot of times toward the end of your pregnancy you will have to take valtrex, because my body is going through so much.
I am not sure if they will make you have a c-section just because you have herpes, but you are right, that if you have a vaginal delivery your baby is at a very high risk to contract the std.
As for your questions about a c-section go ahead and ask away, and I will try to answer them the best I can.
Good luck.