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Q: I Might Find Out Gender of My Baby Today :) (update)
asked by: snowygirl on July 28th, 2006
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Ahh im so excited and cant wait. I really want a girl though so everyone pls hope pink for me thanks :) if I find out its a girl me and my hunny is going out to buy a pink outfit today hehe.


Last edited by snowygirl on August 1st, 2006 04:36 PM; edited 1 time in total
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jgtc06
replied on July 28th, 2006
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Keep us updated.
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michelle1981
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Did you find out?
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innocent1989
replied on July 29th, 2006
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Well good luck I hav emy fingers crossed its a girl for u xxxx
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snowygirl
replied on August 1st, 2006
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Omg, I was suppose to find out the gender of my baby but I couldnt believed what had happened :( im sorry for udating u girls till now but I was really sad and crying and couldnt post till now. What had happened was I went to find out the gender of my baby and when the doc. Did the u/s she said my baby had no h/b and the u/s only showed my baby at 15 weeks but was suppose to be 18 weeks already. I couldnt believe at that moment my baby was gone and I didnt even know it. Im so sad and upset at myself I couldn't believe this would happen to my baby. I had already heard the h/b, saw my baby moving on the u/s screen, the chances of m/c would've been really small :( when we found out what had happened me and my hunny just held each other and cried :(. I dont know what to say im just feel totally empty and devastated now :(. Ive been crying and couldnt sleep these past few days :( I didnt even had any symptoms of m/c I dont understand why I lost my baby. My doc says I had a missed m/c :( I had my d&c already and still in pain from it :( I love my baby so much I dont know what to do anymore :( I only feel like crying all the time.
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on August 1st, 2006
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Aww im sorry to hear that...Sad story...It just happened to my cousin also...Just keep your head up and think positive...Eventhough its hard!
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sandyallen
replied on August 1st, 2006
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Oh, .Snowygirl, iam so very sorry! I know what you are feeling because, I felt the same way! My thoughts are with you!
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jillie81
replied on August 1st, 2006
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I know it's hard but keep your chin up! Thinking of you.....
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michelle1981
replied on August 1st, 2006
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Omg, i'm so sorry!!!!!!

Please take care of yourself!
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jessesgirl
replied on August 1st, 2006
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I'm very, very sorry for your loss. I said a prayer for you.
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rosejackson
replied on August 2nd, 2006
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Im so sorry for your loss, I am thinking about you x
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johnsocma
replied on August 2nd, 2006
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Wishing you only the best during your time of pain. I truly hope you and your husband will be alright. I can imagine how this loss is affecting you.


For those few weeks-
i had you to myself.
And that seems too short of time
to be changed so profoundly.

In those few weeks-
i came to know you...
And to love you.
You came to trust me with your life.
Oh, what a life I had planned for you!

Just those few weeks-
when I lost you,
i lost a lifetime of hopes,plans, dreams, and aspirations...
A slice of my future simply vanished overnight.

Just those few weeks-
it wasn't enough time to convince others
how special and important you were.
How odd, a truly unique person has recently died
and no one is mourning the passing.

Just a mere few weeks-
and no "normal" person would cry all night
over a tiny, unfinished baby,
or get depressed and withdraw day after endless day.
No one would, so why am i?

You were just those few weeks my little one
you darted in and out of my life too quickly.
But it seems that's all the time you needed
to make my life so much richer-
and give me a small glimpse of eternity.
By susan erlin
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megums1211
replied on August 2nd, 2006
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Snowygirl, I am so sorry :( I will pray for you, I promise.
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Melissa_20
replied on August 2nd, 2006
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Sorry about what happened sweetie! God will sent you an angel,don't you worry and he will take care of the one you already love! : ) keep your head up hun!
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sandals527
replied on August 2nd, 2006
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Snowygirl, I am soo sorry for your loss.... Did your Dr. Ever tell you the gender, it could help with the healing process... Ya know name him or her, and give yourself time to grieve... Again I am sooo sorry for your loss
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JennyJ
replied on August 2nd, 2006
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I had the same thing happen to me last year but I wasn't as far along. I had to have a d/c and it was horrible pain while I was having it done. I'm so sorry for your loss. Don't get discouraged though. I felt so bad and thought I would never be pregnant again and now i'm having a little girl. Just try your best to stay positive and focus on the future and not the past. I'll be praying for you.
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Bridget
replied on August 2nd, 2006
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Oh my god... I am so so sorry. I know how badly you wanted this baby and having been through it myself I know exactly what you're going through. I'm here if you want to talk. I hope you're feeling okay physically. :hugs:
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