Hi everyone...Ok so here is my situation. I am 20 and will be 21 in october. My bf is 27 will be 28 soon. We both want to try for a baby. I know that this should be all our decision but because of the fact that we are not yet engaged or married I am afraid if I do become pregnant my family will be upset. We are planning on getting married but just not right now. Has anyone else been in this situation? ?
Trust me,waitt il your at least engaged.If you love each other so much you want a child you will wait.You just want to make sure you have a stable environment/relationship.Even though your together its more stable to be married.Do you guys plan on getting a house or anything?
Btw I am 21 and my b/f is 27 turning 28 in august!
I say do what you want I wanted to have my kids young and im loving minus for the days they drive me completly bananas lol!!
Even if your family gets upset they will come around I have 2 kids and im 22 now I was married but I wanted my kids young and I didnt want a deadbeat dad either so I want to have kids with someone who would commit themselves..
My hubby is 30 8 yrs difference as well, I think having kids after 30 is pretty rough cause you barely have enough energy let alone handle kids, all I can say is have fun!