Joined: 27 Jul 2006 Posts: 16 Location: New Jersey, US
Pregnant And Not Sure How to Tell My Boyfriend Posted: 07-27-06 13:01pm
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well this is the deal my boyfriend and I
have been together for 2 years we both
already have children. Right now we are
going through some changes and are
thinking abotu where do we go from here.
We have had some trust issues and cheating
on his part.
I recently found out I might be pregnant
and I know he doesnt want anymore kids.
But I do want this baby more than
anything. How do you think I should
break the news? He is planning on moving
out soon. I kind of still want him too
that way when I do tell him he can't say
he isnt leaving. And then I wonder if he
just stayed becuase I was pregnant and not
becuase he loved me. :(
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-27-06 13:13pm
This is hard and i'm sorry you are in such
a space.
I think you answered your own question
though...Wait until he moves out to tell
him. We all know our own answers in our
hearts. Just listen to yourself.
Good luck!!
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 07-27-06 13:33pm
I think you should tell your babydaddy
right away.He might have some changes in
his mind,and you never know,you could be a
family :).Good luckkkk honeyy <3
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Emma2
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Posted: 07-27-06 13:35pm
I think you should just be honest and also
wait until he has moved out. Always go
into these types of things thinking the
worst because its eaiser that way.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 07-27-06 14:09pm
Yeah I agree with emma and ingi,wait til
he moves out so you know what his
priorities are and where his head is
at.That way you wont feel bad about any
decisions you have made cause if you guys
want,he can always move back in.I'm sure
he will moan and gripe about it at first
but he'll get use to the idea and come
around.Good luck with it hun!
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johnsocma
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Joined: 27 Jul 2006 Posts: 16 Location: New Jersey, US
Posted: 07-27-06 15:38pm
Thanks I agree. It probably is best that
way we can at least work on our
differences and hopefully if we decide to
live together it won't be like it was only
done for the baby. Becuase I think we
need the space to make us work.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 07-27-06 15:47pm
How long have you been together?How long
were you togther when you moved in?
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johnsocma
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Joined: 27 Jul 2006 Posts: 16 Location: New Jersey, US
Posted: 07-27-06 15:50pm
We have been together 2 years and we have
lived together for 1 year
