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Q: I Need Some Advice...
asked by: DaliciaLynn on July 27th, 2006
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Okay so here's the story. My best friends name is kirstin and she is pregnant and due in august. She also has a boyfriend named greg. We havent been friends for very long, the day we became friends that night I went into labor with brayden. So a couple months ago we got in a fight because her boyfriend called me up and was crying, saying how kirstin cheated on him with this guy on the internet. I was so mad at her, because I liked greg as a friend! Her mom ended up calling me accusing greg and I of having something going on and I was like "you need to stay out of it, do you know why their fighting?" she was like no and I said "your daughter cheated on greg with some guy on the net so before you call my house accusing me of sh*t get your facts straight" and then I was like bye and hung up the phone. Well I guess kirstin wanted me to feel sorry for her because...I was talking to greg on the computer...Or so I thought. And greg calls me up and is like, if your on the internet your talking to kirstin, and I was like what? She was pretending to be greg! I kinda suspected it though because of her spelling. Instead of I am she says "i'am" we ended up working it out and I just let it slide and didnt even bring up the fact that she pretended to be him because I just thought she was upset.

Yesterday we planned to see eachother, so I told her I was coming over now and "greg" said "kirstin is sick at her grandma's and I am about to take a shower" "greg" said i'am instead of I am!!!! So I knew it was kirstin. I got so doing it mad and was like if you don't feel like seeing me today quit being a little pregnant b*tch and say so. She didn't respond. I even wrote her an e mail and she didnt respond.

Up until a few minutes ago I seen that she posted me in her little diary thing saying how she lost me as a friend and etc etc. She even got married and I wasn't even invited!!! I was supposed to be there when she gave birth, f*ck that! I know now that she probably wouldnt of even called me!

She was also complaining about how she doesnt want the baby to be here because shes gonna loose all her friends and etc when she got pregnant on purpose, I wrote on her blog-diary thing speaking my mind and then ended up shutting up and saying bye because I told her i'd end up hurting her feeling more than I already have. what is her deal? She is going crazy and I dont even want to be her friend anymore at the moment.

I talked to my brother about it and he mentioned that she could be pretending to be greg to see if i'd flirt with him or anything because of what her mom said but then I realized when she acts like him shes never tried to flirt with me or anything but just has tried to make me feel sorry for her, either saying she is sick, or with the cheating on her boyfriend issue when she was pretending to be him she was all like "kirstin is crying so bad right now"

doing it pathetic, what do you guys think? Should I ditch her for good?
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ThriftyGal
replied on July 27th, 2006
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Pregnancy does make people act different and crummy sometimes. I know I feel a lot more b*tchy than I ever was before. But her being worried about losing friends it's completely retarded, it happens. Happened to me big time. People are just at different places with different priorities than you so it's bound to happen. If I was you I wouldn't give up on her, but completely back of and tell her she's welcome to come talk to you sometime in the future when she's not pulling the immature lying crap and maybe give it a while. If I was you i'ld wait until she came back to me with an apology and other wise just let us go our seperate ways. I would understand her feeling insecure and pretending to be him to see if anything flirtation wise was going on that she didn't know of (it's still sad but understandable) but doing it just for pity is pathetic... Personally I can't stand people who feel sorry for themselves to that point. I wouldn't completely burn my bridge but would keep it way distant for a while.
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DaliciaLynn
replied on July 27th, 2006
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tanyaface wrote:
pregnancy does make people act different and crummy sometimes. I know I feel a lot more b*tchy than I ever was before. But her being worried about losing friends it's completely retarded, it happens. Happened to me big time. People are just at different places with different priorities than you so it's bound to happen. If I was you I wouldn't give up on her, but completely back of and tell her she's welcome to come talk to you sometime in the future when she's not pulling the immature lying crap and maybe give it a while. If I was you i'ld wait until she came back to me with an apology and other wise just let us go our seperate ways. I would understand her feeling insecure and pretending to be him to see if anything flirtation wise was going on that she didn't know of (it's still sad but understandable) but doing it just for pity is pathetic... Personally I can't stand people who feel sorry for themselves to that point. I wouldn't completely burn my bridge but would keep it way distant for a while.


good advice babe, thanks.
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DaliciaLynn
replied on July 27th, 2006
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cloud9 wrote:
aaawe thanks

i'm here if you need me

:wink:


lmao wasn't talking to you smart one.
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ThriftyGal
replied on July 27th, 2006
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cloud9 wrote:
aaawe thanks

i'm here if you need me

:wink:


is your goal really to come into every single thread and ruin it? Cause I know you are really mature and all and wouldn't do something like that.

And your sarcasm isn't witty or funny.
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ThriftyGal
replied on July 27th, 2006
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cloud9 wrote:
who said I was sarcastic

didn't you know I was stupid

i thought everyone knew that

wow


again the sarcasm isn't doing you much.
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on July 27th, 2006
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Someone seriously needs to talk to admin--and if noone else is ...Then I am..Because this person is very annoying-- ...Tanya I wouldnt care where this girl is moving to--here in the us ...She will be taken care of ..If you report her...This is illegal and whoever it is has a huge problem..And is very slowly ruining this board...We are never going to be able to have a normal thread without bs started because this person...So if you arent going to step up and do something about it..Then I am because this is making me sick ...
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ThriftyGal
replied on July 27th, 2006
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I already sent the admin a pm along with links to conversations like these. I know a couple of other posters also have and three mods have, but please do say something too because the more that talk the more likely the admin is to do something!
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Tazzy D
replied on July 27th, 2006
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Sorry girls. Im going to lock this one up as well until the admin sees these post and decides who is in the wrong... Sorry again..
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