Allie I agree. I get it too. Where people won't stop talking about my business like it's their right to be in it, even when I ignore them and make it obvious I don't really care what they might think about it. Just laugh it off next time, that's what I do, and reply with a simple "okay" or "cool". They can't keep going if you don't argue with them and it really doesn't matter what they think anyways.

No but its wrong the guy is stealing candy from a baby still, allie I dont care what you do but come on 41 your still a teen down here he would be considered a pedophile.....


F*ck thats just gross there is 8 yrs between me and hubby but we didnt start dating till I was 18(an adult in quebec)

~makes me sick~

Guys... This thread is just going to get locked too. It's allie's life, let her live it her way.

Sorry but this post was pointless --its just going to start drama...

Stop making post about allie...Duh its never going to work ...People are against what she is doing/has done...And are going to come here and post how they feel....Shesh --

people down here get called pedophiles for a guy being 17 and a girl being 16 let alone 17 and 41.

If I ever did this, my mom would beat my a$$!

I think mine would call the cops....But we're in .America....Sh*ts different here...I guess

sarah

yeah, I don't care if it's legal or not in the uk it is still doing it disgusting.

I can't imagine having old wrinkly balls on top of me and would probably imagine my dad.

Thanks guys! I know what certain peoples opinions on it are, but my opinion is different...Obviously. I see it as we're happy together, hes great with my son, its not hurting anyone, isnt illegal, anyone against big age gap relationships just has to accept its none of their business, and maybe be a bit more open minded and move on. Diamondsz I know if I was in my 20s it wouldnt be such a huge deal, but I cant help my age, neither can max. A relationship is more to do with your personality, how well you get on with someone, being comfortable and happy with them, how you feel about that person, not about how many years they've been alive.

I'd rather be with an older guy, I mean someone over 25. Because they have more respect, treat you better, arent commitment phobic, dont run away from responsibilitys or when things get hard. And wiser, im learning a lot from him. I need a guy like that when I have a child. The guys I know, who are my age, all they're interested in is alcohol, drugs, fighting, driving insanely, sleeping until noon, cant be bothered to get a job, and when a baby is crying during the night they cant handle it and walk out. They are really selfish. At 17/18 they dont want a relationship, they want sex and a girl to act like their mother, picking up after them all the time, lazy! And more likely to cheat on you. My guy's been through all that teenage crap, now hes older hes very happy to be settled down and enjoys family life.

It wasnt a good idea to start this post, but I wanted to explain my views once and not have people keep going on about it here. Im not saying anything else about it, why should I have to defend it to anyone. Agree to disagree.

Dalicia.....*sigh* its not illegal in the uk to be with a guy any age if you're over 16. Wanna know what's illegal? Your little weed habit.

1 more thing, 41 is not old. Brad pitt is 42 hes still hot, 60 is old.