One of my friends, whom i've known since university, has just told me that she's pregnant. She's not sure how many weeks as hasn't seen a doctor yet, just done a home pregnancy test. She's definite that she wants an abortion and is going to see her her gp tomorrow to discuss how to go about it.
The thing is, I just really don't know how to handle this because she was really stupid by not using protection. Basically, she has been seeing a bloke behind her fiance's back and not using contraception when sleeping with him. When she told me what she was doing I told her she was heading for trouble and to bloody well use something or she'd end up pregnant or with an std. She just seems to relish the attention. She has asked me to go to the appointment with her at the hospital when it happens because she 'is frightened of pregnant women and might see one there'!
I just don't know what to say to her. I'm not against abortion as such but really hate the fact that she seems to be treating the whole situation as an attention seeking exercise.
I hope I don't sound really harsh. Just wanted some opinions on this.
Happybaby