Problem With Ejaculation!!! Help! Posted: 07-25-06 11:16am
Hi
i have been having a problem during
ejaculation in that I am distracted by
annoying thoughts about insults others
have said to me right before orgasm and
therefore I ejaculate before I get the
pleasured feeling of orgasm. Later on,
I get a feeling that this experience was
not satisfactory because I was distracted
and thus I have developed a compulsion to
do it until it's perfect or otherwise I
feel a gripping feeling at the trunk of
the penis. Also, I feel some slight
annoying pain in the pelvis region and a
fear that the extra semen will "burst" out
or will burst and break my bladder, unless
I wait two days and get "the perfect
ejaculation". But this cycle continues
if I am distracted again when I ejaculate
2 days after. I know most of this may be
my imagination, but still, it's annoying.
In the past, i've learned that thses
symptoms may be purely psychological b/c
they tend to disappear after I forget
about the "imperfect ejaculation". I do
believe this condition is common, but
please tell me it's harmless and my fears
are unfounded? I am frustrated and just
plan to stop masturbating for a while and
ignore the feelings of sexual drive for a
long time in order to get it out of my
mind. Anyone have suggestions?
