Let me quickly fill you in. I have been with my gf for a little over a year now. We began our relationship on an akward and negative note. She was with my absolute best friend for 3 and a half weeks in a highly charged sexual relationship. Our relationship started the week after he left town. Initially our sex life was very sexual and non emotional because I was unwilling to be intimate with her due to the past with my friend. After a month or so when I realized this was becoming an extremely serious relationship our sex got better and deeper. In the first 2 - 4 months we would have sex daily, sometimes twice a day, and she would orgasm 40 percent of the time. I asked her multiple times if she was ever faking and tried to make her feel comfortable to the fact she didn't have to fake with me. After 5 times of asking over 4 months and her response always being no, she answered differently with a "a few times in the first two weeks of us being together". I was devastated and hurt and said something like "your credibility has been shattered and I will never care if you cum again" in a moment of hurt. Since then our sex life has gone down hill. Due to constantly bringing up her past with my best friend, and after that comment it took a few months to bring our sex life to a bad area. It has now been about 7 months and she has cum not once! She has multiple reasons about it. According to her she is "not interested in cumming, its not that great, I don't do it as hard as I used to". She constantly tells me it doesn't mean anything that she doesn't cum and she still loves it. I used to love to watch her cum with me inside of her and now she hasn't in 7 months. Over the past 3 months she has not been interested in sex at all. Especially in the last week, whenever I make a move, she becomes hurt and feels that I only care about sex. This cycle is destroying our relationship. She feels uncared for and I feel unattractive. The good ol' days of us flirting when we were out leading to us going home and having sex for an hour with her cumming and both lying in eachothers arms sweating has turned into. "can we make love?.... "no I dont want to" and she starts crying if I persist. When we do do it. It is not sexy or interesting. She complains of pains..... She loses interest.... She doesn't wanna do it more then 10 minutes. And forget about cumming. I feel horrible about this and would appreciate any response you guys can come up with :). Thanks alot