So here's the deal: i'm 20 years old, soon to be 21, and am unable to have sex. I've only had sex a few times before, and my erection has never been nearly hard enough. I have a girlfriend now who I am very much in love with, and her with me, and we are absolutely dieing to have sex. It is a serious problem from us because she can't get the idea out of her head that it is her fault. It is not her fault at all, becuase she is down right gorgeous and I am extremely attracted to her. It is a terribly embarrassing problem, and I feel that if it continues much longer it is going to kill our relationship.

Information about me: I don't smoke, I used to masturbate a lot, too much even, but now it's only at most a few times a week. Very infrequently do I wake up with morning erections these days, and when I do, they are not very erect at all. I don't become aroused randomly anymore and feel little sexual desire. This is very troublesome because in high school I was terribly horny. When my girlfriend and I are fooling around, I am able to become erect and maintain an erection some of the time, but it's still not nearly hard enough and for not nearly long enough.

I hate this situation with all of my heart and will do anything to get some help. From what I have read so far, anytime someone asks a question like this, it is only responded to by spammers trying to sell their product. I just need to fix this problem, I can't be impotent any longer, it is killing me.

Any help at all would be so greatly appreciated. Thank you!

-d

ps: i'll try anything to fix this problem!