I can honestly say that at the age 0f 32 I was at the exact same place you were. My solution was I read a book on how to attract women. There are several of them out there and they are worth their weight in gold, if you are anything like I was. After getting 3/4 of the way through the book I was dating two girls at the same time. I know you probably don't believe it but it's true.
4.5 years later I'm here with a broken heart from my first true love. I honestly don't know which was worse. The loneliness you are experiencing or the emptiness I now have.
All I can say is that the Joy of the first 4.25 years of our relationship make both the 32 year wait and the heartache I now have worth wile.
My advise in finding a woman is to be forward. If you meet someone you're interested in don't stand by idly and watch your friend ask for her phone number. Ask for it yourself, call her, ask her to dinner. BE YOURSELF!!!! Good luck. I'm sure we will both get through our love issues...