Weird, But Driving Me Insane. Posted: 07-23-06 18:21pm
I have this strange problem that may be
one weird situation.. Ill start from the
main point.. There is this girl.. I
don't know her personally.. But I feel I
have amazingly strong feeling's for her..
Our original homes are a few hours apart..
Our camp's are in the same town.. We
both go to camp for entire sumer.. That
being the only time I could actually go
see her.. We see eachother very often
even tho we do not plan to.. We just..
See eachother at a specific place that
everyone goes to, pretty much everyday..
Even tho that is the only time I can go
see her, I have those feelings I stated
above.. I said I don't know her, but when
I have a chance to get to know her, I
become very shy.. When i'm away from
being able to know her such as at home and
her at camp, I feel very depressed and
miserable.. I don't feel like doing
anything.. I know this is crazy, i've
tried talking to myself about this, it's
kind of ridiculous.. I've liked her like
this for two years now. I have this
starange feeling that her parents etc
dislike me.. I few days ago when I saw
them they stared me right down, wondering
to myself if they know I like thier
daughter or if they think im some rapist,
freak. I just need some advice on what I
should do about this regoddamndiculous
problem.. Any advice is asked, please and
thankyou. If anymore details are needed,
ask, I will willingly give them too you.
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Paranoid_Girl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 13 Location: United States
Young Love Haha Posted: 07-28-06 22:59pm
:d congrats! Your in love! Haha I know
it can be a real pain in the rear end but
its actually a beautiful thing! And I
dont think your situation is weird because
believe it or not, thats how I got my
current and first bf! He didnt know me,
we just sat at the same lunch table and he
fell inlove and he didnt know why and he
also was depressed cause he thought he
never had a chance with me and blah blah
blah but one day I imd him cause I had his
sn just to say hey whats up? Hows your
summer? And we started talking non stop
till like 4 am!! I think you are in the
same boat as my bf was. Have you ever
spoke to this girl? How does she react
when your around? And if you do get to
know her alittle more, try and have her
approach you instead of the other way
around for awhile to show her that your
not desprite and that you respect her
space. If she never does then go up to
her every now and then when you and her
are with friends so its not so awkward. I
wish you the best of luck! Ask me
questions if you have any, that way I can
be more of some help. Good luck link!
<3 kelly
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link
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 22
Posted: 07-29-06 00:03am
Lmao :) well.. When im around her, she
seem's to act a little nervous.. I don't
know if she is, but yea she seems to be
nervous.. I have never talked to her
yet.. I've been too scared.. Or just
scared that she has a wrong idea about
me.. You see.. When my friend went to
tell her cousin that I like her, he didn't
know how to get her attention and said "be
careful, he likes your cuz".. So I am
assuming when her parents did the "stare",
I think they think I am some rapist freak
and am really scared to find out what she
would do if I did just walk up to her and
say hi.. I am hoping that stare was just
a warning that their watching me that they
only think I like her, and not some rapist
freak.. I would never want to rape
someone in which I really like.. Or
anybody.. I am most defidently not a
rapist xd.. Im also a very shy person
when it comes to meeting new people,
especially people I like.. Have these
feelings for, and don't wanna do something
stupid xd thanks for everything you told
me, I really needed to know what I had got
myself into, well what like.. What the
result of all these feelings were.. :')
hopefully you can reply back :d
- thx for everything, hoping for
another reply from you :), link