Well shes dating someone already and planning on leaving this girl for you... How do you know she won't do the same to you? She could find a guy (or girl even) and say "oh I like you better, i'm gonna break up with my boyfriend so we can date." that's just taking a chance I wouldn't be willing to take. If she's gonna do it to someone else for you, how do you know she wouldnt do it to you?

I doubt she would so the same to me.

You just dont understand, thats why I said "take my word for it" she likes me alot more, she told me. And I said I "think" I love her. You dont necessarely have to date someone to love them. Please dont reply unless your tryin to help

if she likes you 'a lot' then why is she dating another woman and staying with her?

The qaulity of infidelity is a pretty big clue that it's a bad idea... The fact that she would get emotionally involved with you while she is commited to someone should be a deal breaker... It's a lack of a conscience that she is knowingly causing pain to her partner, and being untruthful about her feelings. No one deserves that. It's unlikely it'll be different with you, but let's play that card. Even if it is different with you, are you okay with someone who could do that to someone they are suppose to love?

If you are unhappy in a relationship that is no excuse to leave it by infidelity and such. In the same way that it's not right to invade into a relationship because the couple is unhappy... It's the cowards way out, if she doesn't want to be with that woman she should have left her, regardless of having you waiting on the side or not.

I don't understand why people just don't do the "right" thing, when i'm sure almost everyone knows what it is.

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Whatever... You guys make it sound like it can never work, so maybe ill just go out with her while shes still dating that other girl, I could easily get a threesome out of it. Theyre both really hot. Were both virgins, that would be a pretty cool way to lose it right? Should I just do that and then leave her?

Yeah its defenitely real, you just tell me this girl is a cheater and not worth it, and that I should forget about her, when you know nothing about her or the situation. You call me immature and naive and a puppet and dont even know me, I was voted friendliest male in the senior superlatives in hs, but you just talk to me like im some problem. Im defenitely not out for attention, im a division iii national qualifier in pole vault and decathlon, my name was in the local paper 13 times this year, I dont need attention on smoe stupid internet chat site, I need help with a girl I cant control being in love with, and you tell me to give up.

jimmie I think the threesome is a bad idea.Like I told you before,i would remain friends with her until her and her other half are over and then maybe see what can happen

I know I was just kiddin cause that chick was makin me mad

oh ok,you weirdo! Lol you didn't tell me you were still a virgin though?!

Kinda depends on how ya define it haha, but yep I am.. Surprised? Im a good kid, haha

Why would you want to be with someone who clearly is undecided about her sexuality? How do you know 5-10 years down the line with 3 kids she wont turn you in for another woman? I would never let myself fall in love with someone who is confused and bi-sexual thats just too much drama for me!

My honest opinion shes too young to care about you and she is clearly showing it. Move on and find someone who can give you all her time and isnt confused about which gender she should be with.

First of all I started liking her way before I knew she was bi, but even if I knew that when I met her, I would have still fell for her, that has nothing to do with it, I like her personality and how nice she is, yet how wild and fun she is, and how dorky she can be, etc. Shes not confused about anything, she knows that she likes both sexes. How do I know some straight girl wont leave me 5-10 years down the road with 3 kids for another guy? Your just homophobic. I dont know whats wrong with me, maybe im just too pickey, I dont fall for girls easily, but when I find girls like her, I go for it, especially if she feels the same way. If your just gonna reply and tell me to stop tryin, dont bother.

im not a homophobe because she not a homo ...Shes a woman...Unless your a homophobe and cant admit it? My best friends are gay...It has nothing to do with it. I wouldnt put myself in that position because I have seen 1st hand the lifestyle they live and its very uncertain!!! Grow up before you accuse me of something you clearly know nothing of! Any gay guy will tell you staright up that bi are the kinkiest peeps around and the most messed up. She likes both and youre willing to have a relationship knowing this...I think its pretty scary !!!

Emma, are you serious? You sound like your 12, how old are you? Woman cant be homosexuals? How can I be homophobic when I wanna date a bi girl? You are stereotyping bi people, saying thyere are all cheaters, thats just like saying all men are cheaters. Im gonna stop looking at this topic because it seems like im only talking to children.

If she is with another person be it a man or woman then it is wise to steer clear.

just gotta add that flirting is a normal natural thing and its ok when you have someone to flirt,just as long as you don't let it go past the line (or unless they do it in front of their significant other)

no child! A homo is stricly used for men ! Lesbian .Is for a woman and shes neither because she is clearly classified as bi_sexual.....Homo means man. Do you need a dictionary?


You best stop the topic because it seems all you wanna hear is "bubble gum , vanilla skies and fairytale ending and thats just plain right out not gonna happen here. No one is gonna lie to you to make you feel better. So, before you come on telling people they shouldn't answer unless its to your liking, I suggest you grow the heck up. She doesnt care about , she never will, shes unsure of her sexuality and you need to move on. Plain and simple!!!