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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 07-23-06 00:04am
Well shes dating someone already and
planning on leaving this girl for you...
How do you know she won't do the same to
you? She could find a guy (or girl even)
and say "oh I like you better, i'm gonna
break up with my boyfriend so we can
date." that's just taking a chance I
wouldn't be willing to take. If she's
gonna do it to someone else for
you, how do you know she wouldnt do it
to you?
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-23-06 08:07am
I doubt she would so the same to me.
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-23-06 14:37pm
You just dont understand, thats why I said
"take my word for it" she likes me alot
more, she told me. And I said I "think" I
love her. You dont necessarely have to
date someone to love them. Please dont
reply unless your tryin to help
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-23-06 14:54pm
jimmy123
wrote:
you just dont understand,
thats why I said "take my word for it" she
likes me alot more, she told me. And I
said I "think" I love her. You dont
necessarely have to date someone to love
them. Please dont reply unless your
tryin to help
if she likes you 'a lot' then why is she
dating another woman and staying with her?
The qaulity of infidelity is a pretty big
clue that it's a bad idea... The fact
that she would get emotionally involved
with you while she is commited to someone
should be a deal breaker... It's a lack
of a conscience that she is knowingly
causing pain to her partner, and being
untruthful about her feelings. No one
deserves that. It's unlikely it'll be
different with you, but let's play that
card. Even if it is different with you,
are you okay with someone who could do
that to someone they are suppose to
love?
If you are unhappy in a relationship that
is no excuse to leave it by infidelity and
such. In the same way that it's not
right to invade into a relationship
because the couple is unhappy... It's
the cowards way out, if she doesn't want
to be with that woman she should have left
her, regardless of having you waiting on
the side or not.
I don't understand why people just don't
do the "right" thing, when i'm sure almost
everyone knows what it is.
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-23-06 16:52pm
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-23-06 19:45pm
Whatever... You guys make it sound like
it can never work, so maybe ill just go
out with her while shes still dating that
other girl, I could easily get a threesome
out of it. Theyre both really hot. Were
both virgins, that would be a pretty cool
way to lose it right? Should I just do
that and then leave her?
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-23-06 21:08pm
Yeah its defenitely real, you just tell me
this girl is a cheater and not worth it,
and that I should forget about her, when
you know nothing about her or the
situation. You call me immature and naive
and a puppet and dont even know me, I was
voted friendliest male in the senior
superlatives in hs, but you just talk to
me like im some problem. Im defenitely
not out for attention, im a division iii
national qualifier in pole vault and
decathlon, my name was in the local paper
13 times this year, I dont need attention
on smoe stupid internet chat site, I need
help with a girl I cant control being in
love with, and you tell me to give up.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 07-24-06 09:35am
jimmy123
wrote:
whatever... You guys make
it sound like it can never work, so maybe
ill just go out with her while shes still
dating that other girl, I could easily get
a threesome out of it. Theyre both
really hot. Were both virgins, that
would be a pretty cool way to lose it
right? Should I just do that and then
leave her?
jimmie I think the
threesome is a bad idea.Like I told you
before,i would remain friends with her
until her and her other half are over and
then maybe see what can happen
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-24-06 11:33am
I know I was just kiddin cause that chick
was makin me mad
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 07-24-06 12:11pm
jimmy123
wrote:
i know I was just kiddin
cause that chick was makin me
mad
oh ok,you weirdo! Lol
you didn't tell me you were still a virgin
though?!
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-24-06 13:59pm
Kinda depends on how ya define it haha,
but yep I am.. Surprised? Im a good kid,
haha
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Emma2
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Posted: 07-24-06 14:44pm
Why would you want to be with someone who
clearly is undecided about her sexuality?
How do you know 5-10 years down the line
with 3 kids she wont turn you in for
another woman? I would never let myself
fall in love with someone who is confused
and bi-sexual thats just too much drama
for me!
My honest opinion shes too young to care
about you and she is clearly showing it.
Move on and find someone who can give you
all her time and isnt confused about which
gender she should be with.
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-24-06 15:09pm
First of all I started liking her way
before I knew she was bi, but even if I
knew that when I met her, I would have
still fell for her, that has nothing to do
with it, I like her personality and how
nice she is, yet how wild and fun she is,
and how dorky she can be, etc. Shes not
confused about anything, she knows that
she likes both sexes. How do I know
some straight girl wont leave me 5-10
years down the road with 3 kids for
another guy? Your just homophobic.
I dont know whats wrong with me, maybe im
just too pickey, I dont fall for girls
easily, but when I find girls like her, I
go for it, especially if she feels the
same way. If your just gonna reply and
tell me to stop tryin, dont bother.
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Emma2
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Posted: 07-24-06 15:23pm
jimmy123
wrote:
first of all I started
liking her way before I knew she was bi,
but even if I knew that when I met her, I
would have still fell for her, that has
nothing to do with it, I like her
personality and how nice she is, yet how
wild and fun she is, and how dorky she can
be, etc. Shes not confused about
anything, she knows that she likes both
sexes. How do I know some straight
girl wont leave me 5-10 years down the
road with 3 kids for another guy?
Your just homophobic. I dont know
whats wrong with me, maybe im just too
pickey, I dont fall for girls easily, but
when I find girls like her, I go for it,
especially if she feels the same way.
If your just gonna reply and tell me to
stop tryin, dont
bother.
im not a homophobe because she not a homo
...Shes a woman...Unless your a homophobe
and cant admit it? My best friends are
gay...It has nothing to do with it. I
wouldnt put myself in that position
because I have seen 1st hand the lifestyle
they live and its very uncertain!!! Grow
up before you accuse me of something you
clearly know nothing of! Any gay guy will
tell you staright up that bi are the
kinkiest peeps around and the most messed
up. She likes both and youre willing to
have a relationship knowing this...I think
its pretty scary !!!
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jimmy123
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Posted: 07-24-06 21:15pm
Emma, are you serious? You sound like
your 12, how old are you? Woman cant be
homosexuals? How can I be homophobic when
I wanna date a bi girl? You are
stereotyping bi people, saying thyere are
all cheaters, thats just like saying all
men are cheaters. Im gonna stop looking
at this topic because it seems like im
only talking to children.
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Becky
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Posted: 07-25-06 03:50am
If she is with another person be it a man
or woman then it is wise to steer clear.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 07-25-06 06:12am
sandralynn
wrote:
also, shes not the greatest
catch if shes flirting with you while
still with somebody else. That just
shows she'd do it to you
also.
just gotta add that
flirting is a normal natural thing and its
ok when you have someone to flirt,just as
long as you don't let it go past the line
(or unless they do it in front of their
significant other)
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Emma2
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Posted: 07-25-06 07:56am
jimmy123
wrote:
emma, are you serious?
You sound like your 12, how old are you?
Woman cant be homosexuals? How can I
be homophobic when I wanna date a bi girl?
You are stereotyping bi people, saying
thyere are all cheaters, thats just like
saying all men are cheaters. Im gonna
stop looking at this topic because it
seems like im only talking to
children.
no child! A homo is stricly used for men
! Lesbian .Is for a woman and shes
neither because she is clearly classified
as bi_sexual.....Homo means man. Do you
need a dictionary?
You best stop the topic because it seems
all you wanna hear is "bubble gum ,
vanilla skies and fairytale ending and
thats just plain right out not gonna
happen here. No one is gonna lie to you
to make you feel better. So, before you
come on telling people they shouldn't
answer unless its to your liking, I
suggest you grow the heck up. She doesnt
care about , she never will, shes unsure
of her sexuality and you need to move on.
Plain and simple!!!
