You're blowing it right out of the water. First, to respond to your diet.
1. Bacon is usually cured in some way, using some sort of sugar. You can simply not find any bacon anywhere that is not cured with honey, sugar, molasses or something else. Bad.
2. Grits are from corn, must be avoided.
3. Sugar free bread doesn't matter, it's the carbohydrate content. See below. Avoid it at first.
4. Ham is usally cured in some way, make sure to check. Dextrose is usually used, which won't be listed in sugar content but will affect you.
5. Ruffles? Do I even need to comment on this? First off, it comes from potatoes, second off just why would you eat that and think it was okay?
6. Noodles must be avoided, no chicken noodle soup.
7. Triscuits are terrible. You must be avoiding all processed foods.
Now to respond to your questions in order.
1. No more than 100g at first unless it feels like you need more but never less than 60g.
2. Certain sugars are okay, but really anything in a package cannot be eaten at first. Sugar in fruit is there and in vegetables, but anything in a package likely has the wrong kind of everything.
3. Milk is a disaccharide and raises your blood sugar quickly. Avoid it unless you can tolerate it and if you can you should only be drinking raw milk.
4. Some people have used the orange juice trick, but I always say avoid all juice. If you really want to try it, go ahead, but you should be diluting like 1/8 a cup of juice with around 2 cups of water.
5. Most cheese should be okay, but only if organic and raw. Good luck finding that.
6. Apples are fine in small amounts, like all fruit at first.
7. Potatoes must be avoided at first.
8. No cold cuts.
9. Yogurt is the same problem with milk, raw is the only way to go but you pretty much have to make it yourself. Also, it has a lot of carbohydrates. Plain is all you're allowed, nothing else if you want to try it.