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Q: How Do I Find the Daddy?
asked by: jennimc22 on July 22nd, 2006
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Alright so I am supposedly 19wks preg sunday.(tomorrow) and I know I had sex with this guy on april 5th... But I had sex with this other guy sometime b4 that maybe a week or the same week. And then the weekend after the april 5th guy, went to kc and crap went down and had sex with a couple of guys there. How the hell do I find out which one is the dad?!?! Can I even come close to finding out ??Plleaase if anyone acn help that would be awesome. :cry: :!:
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Mabel
replied on July 22nd, 2006
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If you know their full names you can probably find them. But if not, then probably not. You'll need to have a dna test when the baby is born to figure out who is the father. Start with the 2 you know, then go from there.

Good luck.
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jennimc22
replied on July 22nd, 2006
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Well i've already contacted the guys.. And one of them says they can't have kids(tested). So I ruled him out long time ago- then I jus got ahold of one of the guys today and well there are only two guys that talk to me. They don't remember when it was but I know that one of the guys was april 4th so is it a possibility that he is the dad ? Like I dont know if or how you calculate all that out. I didn't know when my last period was but I think it was march sometime.
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Mabel
replied on July 22nd, 2006
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Just because a guy says he can't have kids, doesn't mean he can't have kids. I've known plenty of girls who have ended up pregnant that way. Guys tend to make those comments so they can get away without wearing a condom. How old is he? And why on earth would he have had fertility testing done? (insurances don't usually pay for fertility testing and unless you aren't getting someone pregnant, there is no reason to find out if you aren't producing sperm. Ask him what his motility rate was?)

after the baby is born, you'll need to go to social services/child support in your area and tell them the people you slept with and how to get in touch with them. They'll send them notification that they need to come have a paternity test and they will take blood from your baby to test who the father is. Tell them everyone you have slept with, even if that person said they weren't able to have kids, okay?

The formula is usually about 2 weeks after your last period - but that all depends on 'normal' periods that come every 28 days and it sounds like yours weren't consistent or you'd have remembered when it was. If you had sex with more than one guy within a few days apart, it could realistically be either of them. And since you are unsure on any of the dates (other than the 4th of april), only a blood test could tell you.

Good luck.
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jennimc22
replied on July 22nd, 2006
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Thank you- yea I asked him how he was for sure and he said he was engaged to this gurl and she wanted to have kids really bad and guess they had been trying for a while but could so he got tested or whatever I guess and then she ended up preg. And it wasnt his. So yea, I know lots of guys say those type of things. Well thanks for everything I just wish I could find out cuz it's driving me crazy. But hey if he/she comes out black then I guess i'll know exactly who's it is haha :) anyway!!! Thanks again
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amberbilly
replied on August 15th, 2006
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Who's My Babys Daddy
Go on the maury show in new york.
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