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Q: Is This 'dumpworthy' Or Not?
asked by: jophil28 on July 22nd, 2006
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I have been dating a lady for two months and we have been sexually intimate for most of that time.However she told me that there is another guy who is interested in her, but she has not sexual interest in him eeeven thopugh he has expressed his love for her.. They occasionally see each other. Lets call him tony.
She invited me round to her house last asaturday to "have sex in her big bed". She was a little tipsyat the time. So I went round and we did it. She gets out of bed and hour later to go to the bathroom and her cell rings .She picks up and says."hello." and then disappears out of the room and walks quickly down the hall to have a conversation outside my hearing. She ccomes back 10 minutes later. My radar is 'bleepin'.

We go out for dinner that same night and I raise the topic of the phone call. She says, " it was tony calling and he asked me out for coffee tomorrow afternoon at 4:30pm . I said yes. I would go. "
i feel a tad annoyed. She just had sex with me and still in the afterglow.
She answers a call from a guy who is chasing her aand she agrees to go on a date with him tomorrow?
Whats wrong with this picture. Should I just get over it and accept that this stuff goes on today or should I push 'delete' on her.
Jophil.
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Paranoid_Girl
replied on July 26th, 2006
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Hello jophil,

well to me it sounds like this lady dosnt know what she wants! I think having a talk with her would help. Ask her what she wants, that she cant just play with your feelings like a puppet! If she still dosnt know what she wants and you truly love her, support her in her decision but maybe hold back on the physical relationship until she has made up her mind. I also wonder if tony knows about you? Does he know that she has sex with you along with dating him? Ask her if he knows and how he feels about the situation. I hope you make the right decision and everything goes well.

<3 kelly
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nightangel73
replied on July 26th, 2006
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I would dump her in a ny minute. Listen what your gut tells you is what is right, trust me. You feel is not right and it is not!
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Melissa_20
replied on July 27th, 2006
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nightangel73 wrote:
i would dump her in a ny minute. Listen what your gut tells you is what is right, trust me. You feel is not right and it is not!
yeah I agree.It sounds like she's trying to have 2 in one.Someone to play with and someone to love.Forget her cause if she liked you she would be with you.Does she know you like her like that or does she just think your her toy?
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