not what I heard....
Anyone else with any info on the actual topic?
|i have never blamed anyone for my 2 kids, I love them both and I am glad I had both of them.
Drugs? You say it as if i'm sniffing things up my nose. Have you ever been high on weed? Have you not been able to perform normal tasks while on it? Because I am fine on it, it makes me relax. Weed grows out of the ground, meth,coke etc has chemicals in it along with everything else. How can you complain to me about weed when there's so much worse than that?
Sandra, how can you not think about getting pregnant when not using protection? It's so freakin' obvious.
I would have rather gotten pregnant twice due from being on the patch & my ex putting a hole in the condom than to know I had sex without protection when I knew I could get pregnant.
My advice to you tanya- you got pregnant on purpose deal with the consequences.
|haha, so what does he poke holes in condoms ahead of time, then he's putting a already unwrapped condom on his dink and you aren't wondering about it?
Or does he stop right before you are about to, unwrap it, get a needle and poke a hole? The "he got me pregnant without me even knowing" thing is bullsh*t and you know it.
It's the most retarded thing to sit around argueing about since i'm already having a baby and I got pregnant months ago and nothing said now is going to change the past.
The thing about drugs is how the hell will you tell your kid not to start smoking dope? The other thing about kids are you are suppose to want to be a better person because of them. I know i've already changed completely and my baby isn't even here. And once it is I won't think about smoking pot because i'll have a reason to straighten up in every aspect of my life. Where the hell is your self control? Are you going to be okay with it when your son is doing the stuff you do? The drugs, assulting people for money, and going around with a disgusting attitude?
I couldn't imagine having a beautiful baby, something i'ld wanna live as good a life for as I could because of, and then just going and getting high everyday. "gee son you were so important to me I was high while taking care of you everyday." "you were so important to me I did something illegal every day because you didn't make me want to be a better person". If I learnt my mom was on pot every day of her life i'ld be disgusted and think I wasn't important enough for her to change for.
You get what you give in life dalicia and even though I made a mistake by being careless because I thought I could afford to risk it I know i'm a good person and I will do fine and always try to do the right thing. Can you say the same about yourself? Can you go to bed at night thinking "i was high all night while my baby boy needed me" and be settled with "well pot doesn't stop you from performing daily tasks"... Do you consider the care of your son a daily task? Like driving a car, cleaning the kitchen?... Do you feel like a good person after assulting someone? Do you feel like you want your son to be like you? I know i'm a good person atleast. I know I would never for one second think of myself while I have another life depending on me and go smoke up. Please dalicia, this thing called karma, is going to come back to hit you hard one day. I promise you, all the negativity you put out and surround yourself with will come back. And for that I feel really sorry for you.
|jesus dalicia I thought you two were friends, whats this about turning on her and telling her not to be a b*tch and stuff when you're getting in her personal business. Its her business how she got pregnant and no one elses. Im not trying to jump on the bandwagon but this is getting blown way out of porportion and it's stupid. Maybe she didnt expect to have problems with erik when this happened, the point is shes trying to support her child, the benefits are there so why not take the help?
Wheather she got pregnant on purpose or not its nobodys business, she didnt ask for anyone to attack her personal life so that should be dropped.
Not trying to start a fight but maybe if I wouldnt have opened my big mouth none of this would have even be .S.A.I.D!!!