Still Worried

This is copied off a site I found...

"there is a "window period" which is the time it takes the body to produce antibodies after hiv infection has begun. For the vast majority of those who will test positive, antibodies to hiv will develop within 4-6 weeks after exposure. Some will take a little longer to develop antibodies. To make certain that you receive a reliable test result, it's necessary to wait at least three months (13 weeks) after your last possible exposure to the virus before being tested.

Getting tested before three months may result in an unclear result or a false negative. Some testing centers may recommend testing again at six months. It's extremely rare for seroconversion to take more than six months to develop detectable antibodies."

seeing as your ex boyfriend was tested twice after 6 months of you two spitting and you had no sexual intercourse after the split and both test hiv did not show up I would say that you do not have it and he most likely did not have it when he entered boot camp or the military.

Relax and do not worry yourself. You are going to get all worked up and then monday your going to be told you do not have it and kick yourself for thinking you did. Just relax and try not to think about it.

I remember when I thought I had hiv and it took like a week to find out and when I found out I did not have it I just wanted to slap myself for worrying so much even after my doctor told me she really doubted I had it.