Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 51 Location: United Kingdom
Whats Going On?!? Posted: 07-01-06 13:36pm
Is anyone else having the urge to get
pregnant again after an abortion??
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Lissy79
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 51 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 07-01-06 13:37pm
Hi.. I had my abortion in feb this year
at 17 weeks. Common sense is telling me I
had it done because I felt it wasnt the
right time to have a baby... So why have
I got such a strong urge to become
pregnant again?? :(..... I wake up every
day fighting this and its getting harder
andmaking me more depressed...
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toja
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 34
Posted: 07-01-06 14:47pm
Lissy darling, you are not alone. I am
experiencing the same thing and even found
myself looking for information today if it
is ok to get pregnant stright after
abortion. I believe it is all because of
hormones that will release your body in
6-12 months. Please think carefully, if
your situation changed enough for you to
have baby now. I would like to be still
pregnant (or pregnant again) but when
remember that I didn't plan it and it was
unexpected and scary so I always try to
think would I feel the same negative
emotions if pregnant again? Then I come
to conclusion that yes, I would, and I
don't wanna be stuck again...
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Lissy79
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 51 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 07-01-06 14:52pm
Thank u for the reply hun...I understand
what ur saying.....And my common sense
tells me it too soon..... I mean I wold
have been due in 18 days time so if I did
get pregnant now... Then technically I
could have kept the baby that would have
been due this month!!! And like u,i
have been sufing the net the last couple
of days to find info on if its ok to get
pregnant so soon... Ive also noticed the
urge is stronger the week before and the 5
days of my period..Is it the same for u??
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Carifairy
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Posted: 07-01-06 16:14pm
Ladies, many women who have aboritons do
want a baby later in life!
It is very normal to have your hormones
tell you that you want a baby, but your
common sense knows better.
You have to know that it is good to listen
to yourself, but if you are not ready to
have a baby then you should wait.
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Lissy79
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 51 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 07-01-06 17:43pm
Thanks cairyfairy I apperciate everyones
answer.... I just needed to know I wasnt
the only feeling this way....X
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Carifairy
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Posted: 07-01-06 17:49pm
A lot of teens will go thorugh a hormonal
period soemtimes where they want a baby at
16! They know they are not ready, (some
actually think they are), but they still
have a baby because their hormones think
it is cute.
In reality, a baby is hard work and
expensive...
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Lissy79
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 51 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 07-01-06 17:53pm
Yeah ive seen them.....Im 27 and didnt
think I was ready to have the one I
terminated..:(...My friends got 2 and even
when I go visit her I can see the work she
has got... But its a case of my heart
catching up with my head im
affraid.....Life is a waiting game
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Carifairy
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Posted: 07-01-06 20:40pm
True!
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cherry88
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Joined: 09 May 2006 Posts: 633 Location: ,
Posted: 07-01-06 22:06pm
carifairy
wrote:
a lot of teens will go
thorugh a hormonal period soemtimes where
they want a baby at 16! They know they
are not ready, (some actually think they
are), but they still have a baby because
their hormones think it is cute.
In reality, a baby is hard work and
expensive...
thats so true! The teen preg forum is the
most popular funnily enough!
