Can I ask you , what gives you the right to judge someone that has been raped, gotten pregnant feels that she would be an unfit mother, the fetus has missing organs that cannot be replaced, would you rather see that baby be born brought up without love and the basics, neglected, abused sexually and otherwise, be brought up in filfth, beaten for no reasonother them yhe mother has health issues that she cannot control, just born to say it was born and to have to decide when it is right to pull the plug when you knew this was going to happen before birth, sure, it could go to an adoption home where there is no love given. When you are walking in these people's shoes, then you can say why as accidents happens, rape happens, incest an sex abuse happens. I ddo not like to see multipke abortions either but some have their reason's and it is not up to me to judge them as I am not in their shoes but I will stand by and understand and support them as I do realize that their is a lot of garbage that goes on in life. And please do not take me wrong, I am not hammering you, just wanting you to understand that.

I have had 3 abortions, and I am also on the most effective form of birth control around..An iud... It is just as effective as a tubal ligation.

I work in healthcare, I went to college, but birth control still failed 'me'..Someone who is trained to know how to use it... If it can fail me, it certainly can fail anyone!

Nothing is 100%..And I am married btw, so I not promiscuous..We as women have to deal with the fact that we will not reach menopause for many years, and until then we can get pregnant! I am 24, and 50 is a long ways away...

I don't think I can say it better than sandyallen. Women have their reasons for aborting, whether they're carrying their uncle's child or they just got too wrapped up in the heat of the moment in the back of their partner's car. If the woman doesn't want the child and/or doesn't want to be pregnant, then I think that's a justifiable reason by itself to abort.

Think about it...If you had to deal with some sort of health problem that could be cured, would you not seek treatment? Women who don't want to have children, be it either for only a certain time span or ever, see their unwanted pregnancy as a sickness, not a "miracle".

What happened to all of the posts on this topic?
I was still curious about some of the original authors assumptions ??

They may have dissapeared when all recent topic dissapeared. I believe ehealthforum.Com had a database error.

Everything that had been posted for the past 7 days from july 1 up to the restored date has been lost. It was no ones fault. Sorry for the inconvience.

Not a problem, I was just curious lol