Lady12:

well first off, you say he has "ed" but yet he is masterbating to porn which means he doesn't have a problem getting an erection!

Seems to me he has taken the porn a little too far and become dependant/addicted to it.

However, I think you should try changing your approach. Instead of you initiating all the time, which probably makes you feel bad and he may get bored of it. Try something along these lines.

Do something different, something out of the norm to where you make him engage the sex. For example, try being a "tease" that will turn him on. Maybe water the grass or cut the grass in something sexy where he can see you looking attractive and he'll think other guys will find you attractive and that may make him want you more. Clean house in something sexy, turn the radio on loud while your sweeping in short shorts or whatever you wear! Be a tease and give him a sarcastic remark when he asks why you're doing this. :)

keep us up to date.

He can't maintain an erection hard enough to "go in." he has went to a doctor, I went with him too. He does suffer from it, that part is a fact. So now what??? Please help!
Lady12

Lady:

you told us the facts........He went to a doctor and the ed was diagnosed. Okay, so what else did the doctor say??? What other advice did he offer him? Any meds? Change of diet? Did you let the doctor know about his porn issues?

If you two are at least somewhat healthy and in good physical shape and decently attractive then this problem is his not yours. In my opinion, you'll be surprised that probably over 70% of the problem lies in the fact that he has a porn issue.

I understand you are in a somewhat desperate state to solve this matter, but I don't think it will be solved overnight. It will take some time for him to overcome this. If you are willing to stand by him then i'm sure you two can overcome this together.

:)