Are you sure he's not cheating? Or getting off to porn instead?

Yes. Often when you have a baby your relationship with your spouse changes. He is seeing you as 'mommy' to his son now. Are you breast feeding? Are you spending any time alone with just your husband?

You two should go out alone together if you can and establish that you are still a woman, with or without a child.

Having a baby wreaks havoc on your sex life!

Seeing a baby come out of 'his' area can be frightening for a man, whether they admit it or not. You need to adjust to being a family.

;) it will all work out eventually.

unless his dick detaches itself and goes for a walk - no he isn't cheating!!
I doubt he is getting off to porn either unless he is doing it at work, but we used to do that together so that wouldn't be a problem anyway!!

no im not breast feeding any more. And I think you are prob right. Other than the sex our relationship is fine. Mind you when I think about it we didn't used to have sex much more than what we have now - I think my sex drive is just over the top!! :-) we do spend alot of time together now that our son is a little older we are manageing it brilliantly (if I might say so myself!) our marriage seems to have actually improved alot lately, on an emotional level anyway :-)