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Q: Don't Know What to Do!!!
asked by: zerodegrees on June 27th, 2006
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I'm just gonna tell the whole story and comments or feed back I would love to hear, ok so I met this girl (brandy) we had sex within 3 hours of meeting and it was only suppose to be a week end thing, (she also had sex with another guy the previous weekend) so anyways, we hit it off pretty good, so we met at her friends cause she was from out of town, I really liked this girl so I thought I would ask her out before she left, I said "can I keep you" and she almost cried and she called her friend and stuff, but she did say yes... So the next weekend I went down their to her friends, cause her ex husband was still at her house, so we stayed at her ex's sisters place, then we both moved in together at her ex's sisters house for a month, then we got a house for a month and we got into a big fight, nothing physical, but the cops were called and I went to jail for almost the whole night, and was told not to talk with brandy or her family or tanya (brandy's ex husbands sister) so I couldn't go back to my ouse without the cops, I made the calls went back and got my stuff out, and 3 days after me and her sister started talking, then me and brandy got back together after lots of crying and convinsing, oh yeah I missed a big part, she got preggers like right after we met acordding to the doctors.
So were back together for almost 2 weeks when she breaks it off cause we were hiding this 2nd relationship from everyone and I told her I understand, but evertime I go to her place where she moved in with her sister, it seems she either asks for money, or sex, well for me to go down on her, and when we were togetehr I did everything I looked after her 1 year old everyday and cooked supper for her 5 year old for when he got home from school, I cleaned, I did laundry I made out bed every morning drove down town to do shopping and arons for her, I stayed up with the baby all night when he was sick while she slept or flirted with guys on the net, she knew it made me mad the she was meeting guys on the net so anyways back to where we lost our house cause of the cops, I bought her a ring asked her to marry me she said yes and then back to the part where she called it off, so its been about 3 months now since we not been toether, and she got a dog back when we were together, and the pound picked her up and she knew I wanted the dog, but she told me the pound gave her a way to a cop dog training camp thing about 2 hours out of town, I knew she was lying cause I called the pound the day they were suppose to put her down and she was still their and the woman held her for me, cost me 100 bucks to get the dog out she was their so long, and she used to always say have I ever lied to you and I never really caught her in a lie so I said no, finding out anbout the dog I wrote her an email, and she wrote if you think that then stay away from me and stay out of my life and everything, when I only goto see her when she ask's me to, and she talks to this guy on the phone lon distance now, and I was laying beside her in bed when I swore I heard her say "i love you under her breath, she deny's it stright to my face, and this was at 2 in the morning.So anyways its 3 months after I went to jail, and her parents are just starting to figure out that we talk, and maybe stil see each other, I just don't know what to do at this point, I love this girl with all my heart, i'm trying to let go but the more I try the more it hurts... Hmmm... What else.... I dunno, if I think of something else i'll add it, please I need some advice or help

ps not even 100% sure the child is mine, i'm getting a perternity test done
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Spirit
replied on June 27th, 2006
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She sounds like a totally nut job......Do you really think the drama will end?................If it's your baby, fight for custody.
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Sarah020406
replied on June 27th, 2006
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Jezz she is definately screwwing you around a bit!! My suggestion is to break of the relationship (she obviously dosen't want to be with you, and no one deserves to be treated like that) but try and remain friends for the babys sake, every child deserves two loving parents but if that is not possible then try for custody of the baby. By the way start writing down everything she does (bad stuff) with regards to you and the baby, it may come in handy if you decide to go for custody!! Good luck with the paternity test I hope you get the result you want. Let us know how it goes.
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littlesqueaks
replied on June 28th, 2006
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If you let a one go and they come back it may be worth fighting for but if they are only coming back for one thing money and sex then you may want to think about dropping her. If you let her continue on with her sheraids then she will end up breaking your heart for good. Get the test done to get the 100% percent answer you deserve then choose your life course from there and choose it wisely!!!!! There is nothing like living with someone and feeling used through out the rest of your life to provide for them and only them and recieve nothing in return!!!!! You may have strong feelings for her but she may not have the same for you. Love should never be hidden it should be shouted out from the mountain tops for all to hear and if she is unwilling to do so then I don't think her love is true. Good luck and I hope all turns out well for you.
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