I wasn't entirely sure where to put this topic, but I figured it would fit best here.

Has anyone ever attempted herbal sterilization? I've been reading about it quite a bit for the past few days and i'm considering trying it. I know no doctor will sterilize me because i'm still young, and even if they would I couldn't afford it anyway. Like most people, I would love to enjoy my sex life, but when there's a chance I could get pregnant, I get too worried and can't be intimate with my partner.

We use condoms, but i've yet to allow my partner to keep going for more than a minute - I just get way too paranoid that the condom will break or fall off (which it did the very first time we had sex). And please no one suggest birth control. Not only can neither of us afford it, but I do not like the idea of putting hormones into my body. I was on birth control a couple years ago for menstrual problems and I hated it - it made me feel like dirt and I gained about ten pounds.

I want to try and sterilize myself with herbs. One particular method I have found is to drink cola tea made from stoneseed root every day for six months, and it is supposed to cause permenant sterility. At this point, I don't care about the side effects - if it works, it will be worth it.

Has anyone here ever tried or considered trying herbal sterilization? If you have tried, was it successful?